we saw each other once in my father's office. He was sitting there talking work with my father.Then I came in talked to father & that guy could not keep his eyes off me, even in my father's presence! then my father introduced us & we exchanged casual hello and made eye contact then I went out.. after that I start hearing about a guy that is asking my friends and co-workers what do I do, thing I like, my address, etc..! I never knew who it was.. a week after I find this HUGE wrapped with flowers chocolate box in my room on the first day of 2007! "BTW i'm a chocoholic" & asked me on a date (4 Feb) on the card.
Should I be expecting a gift on valentine's even if we just meet 10 days before valentine's day?
I don't want him to give me a gift then I give him nothing.. or the other way around.. it will be kind of rude/weird.. (p.s. we will not have a date on v.day since I will be busy, but he might send something then I will feel bad!!)
should I be prepared & send a gift on v.day?
2007-01-26 11:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by hotblondebabegurl83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Don't have a Valentine's Day gift ready for him. Don't even send him a card. It's his job to woo you. Men have greater respect for a woman that is difficult for them to get and if you start with the gift and card thing it makes you appear too needy.
2007-01-26 11:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Way cool on the chocolates..lol..I would wait and see how your first date goes then go from there. If good then by Valentines day you could be prepared with a simple card saying something to the effect of Thank you for such a wonderfull time the other night I really enhoyed our dinner, moive etc..I hope to se more of you in the future, Happy Valentines day..then sign it hugs and kisses..and ur name
2007-01-26 11:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rain32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he did already give you the flowers and chocolates, so maybe you can return the favor. I think it was a gesture to let you know he likes you. Which I find very sweet. I think you should return some sort of a favor to let him know you like him as well. It would be weird if he gave you another gift on Vday and you still hadn't given him something. I personally am all about giving. That's how I let someone know I like them and appreciate them.
2007-01-26 11:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problems here! LOL. If he gives you a gift on V-day, just give him a belated one! Theres always better late than never. Don't rush things, looks likes he knows what he wants and he's going for it! We need more guys like that these days. But yeah I wouldnt be the first to give the gift though, thats the only thing...
2007-01-26 11:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. You can get him a gift but do not go overboard you know maybe something small that he has mentioned that he likes or that you can tell by hanging out with him that he likes. That would be kinda weird but v-day is weird because you never know what to do.
2007-01-26 11:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 03:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to prepare to give him anything.
You are not dating, nor are you even a couple yet.
If he gets you something, then great! Thank him, say that was very nice, and discuss a date.
On a side note, if he was to get you anything, its a bit premature if you ask me. You are not dating really.. if he wants to do something that makes sense, he can ask you out to dinner only for Valentines, with no attachment.
2007-01-26 11:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are at least of adult age.... If some guy came into my office and then tried dating my underage daughter...I'd be pretty upset as a dad.
As far as a gift...have a card in your purse. If he gives you anything...give it to him. But if he doesn't...don't. It's worth $4.00 dollars to have a card ready.... just in case.
4th of Feb? Isn't that super bowl sunday? If it is, don't be surprised if the date includes watching the game.
2007-01-26 11:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your planning to far in advance. first see how the date goes,who knows you may find that you dont like him.and even if the date goes well. i would not plan on getting him a gift. due to the fact that at that point it will only be 10 days. but good luck on your date!!
2007-01-26 11:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little nice detail would be nice but not 2 much since you just met the guy. And I have to say this, He is so CUTE, he got your flowers and chocolate, that’s so nice of him. He is really interested in you. Good luck~
2007-01-26 11:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋