Do you think there is a partner out there for everyone,i keep meeting total shits.Im a genuine person,not ugly look after myself,like a laugh,ive got a good job,own house etc,not needy-very independent.I only get asked out by men who want one night stands or who mess me about,im beginning to think there are no normal nice guys out there,where the hell am i going wrong???help
2007-01-26 11:06:47 · 3 answers · asked by NATALIE W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not doing anything wrong. In the old days, if you were hunting tigers, you would not chase them, you would let them come to you (So I am told!) and the same applies to relationships. If you go hunting for a man, then some men will see you as needy (even though you don't realise it!)and thus an easy target, and as you know, they are normally total shits!
After a number of these turds have been flushed down the lavatory of life, you start to think that men are all the same...Well, we're not! I am quiet, not too thick, and enjoy the simple pleasures of life and yet I am still single, but I know that I will meet a girl who likes me for who I am, not what I have.
Change the prey, not the lure!lol
Hope this helps!
2007-01-27 06:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to think that there is one perfect partner for everyone, but I am starting to think that it is unlikely that there is. Spend time with your friends, and build up your social circle, hopefully this way you will find some more suitable men. Good luck!
2007-01-27 05:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club :(
when you find the answer please let me know
2007-01-27 03:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by confused.poster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋