He doesn't seem as happy around me like he use to. When I talk to him, he just doesn't show interest. Also he's been playing around with other girls. He pokes and tickles them and he talks to them more than me. He is sweet when we are by ourselves, but hes different around my friends. We use to talk alllll the time, but now we just kinda stand around.. And when we talk on the phone, its about stupid things.. he listens to music while im on the phone so i just sit there and then he gets mad if I dont say anything.. And we dont have the same interests, or fav kind of music. Also he wont grow up. Im way more grown up than him.. And I think his friend likes me and Im starting to like him. But I promised my heart to my BF, and we've been together for 5 months and Im inlove with him, because at times, he can be annoying but at other times, hes amazing! How can I hold our relationship together.. I dont know what to do. & i kno we love each other, but we're kind of gettin tired of each other
2007-01-26 10:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by Chika cha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both 14 by the way and we were best friends for 4 months and we have never been close to the point of breaking up, but it all dawned on me
2007-01-26 11:01:04 · update #1
First off, don't fall for his best friend. I've had that happen to myself, my girlfriend cheated on me with a friend. If you care about this guy in any way shape or form just atleast don't do anything with his friend. Besides that do what makes you happy. If you two are spending significant amounts of time together then of course you're gonna run out of things to say. Try to get to a point where it's like hanging out with one of your friends. Good friends. Just joke around with him, poke jokes on whoever, whatever. It's your two's relationship, do with it what you want.
I say do what makes you happy. Whatever that might be. But all actions get a reaction, just pick and choose, and get whatever you want.
2007-01-26 11:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by shenlongl33t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt this would turn out to be a very serious relationship. It is much difficult to get along with someone who has no similar interests. There is a lack of communication which certainly affect the future. You need to rethink if you love him much or adore him much, cos if you love him truly, you would certainly not start to like another guy. Maybe you and your boyfriend should get to know each other better by going out or find common interest. Do take the initiative to tell him that the relationship is not stable. I do see you are trying to make it work. But sometimes if it doesnt work out, you guys are not meant to be. Sometimes the relationship can end with a friendship. Girls mature faster than guys. If he gets mad for a phone call, I dont see him trying at all. You sure dont want to be just called HIS girlfriend when it meant nothing at all. You mite just be better off without his childish behavior. The Lord mite have different plans for you. Wish you the best.
2007-01-26 11:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, is he making it sound like booty calls, or is he attempting to be complimentary approximately how sturdy the intercourse is? in specific circumstances men attempt to compliment you on intercourse or how eye-catching you're and issues like that as the thank you to declare they such as you and prefer being with you. in any case, the only thank you to handle this i think of is to enable him comprehend which you have an pastime in some thing extra for the long term. the two by utilising hinting at this with him, or extra appropriate yet purely tell him without postpone up what you like. It sounds such as you 2 have been mutually long adequate to have "the relationship communicate." sturdy success with it!
2016-11-01 09:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by herrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta talk to him and tell him how you feel, its the only way to resolve this. Tell him that you feel as tho things are falling apart and you guys are becoming distant and you dont want that to happen, ask him what he thinks....good luck.
2007-01-26 11:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both young.
No one knows what the future holds for you.
2007-01-26 11:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play with other guys the way he plays with other girls -- what is good for the goose is good for the gander...
2007-01-26 10:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just horny and bored and drunk to the point of oblivion.
2007-01-26 10:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, be honest with each other.
2007-01-26 10:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to him more if he "really" likes you he won't denign you or your fealings
2007-01-26 11:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋