Hey. the day before yesterday my stupid freind went up to this guy (as a joke) and said "will you go out with melanie?" (My name) and he said yes not knowing that she was kidding. then she said "well too bad cuz she is not really asking you out!" infact i really did like this guy so i said "wait! did you really say yes?" and he said "yes" and i said "if i asked you out would you say yes?' and he said "yeah" and knowing me i asked him out right after that! he obviously said yes. i was sooooooo happy!! i had a little dance party with myself when i got home cuz i really was madly in love with this guy for a really long time!!! so when i got to school my best freind(who rides his bus) said as she passed me in the hall "do you still like dan?" (my bf) and i told her the good news about me and dan and she looked really suprized and she told me that he said to keep me away from him and he hates me! i went into the room with him and now it is really okward!what the heck should i do now?
2007-01-26 10:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by Melonater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more he said she said nonsense i see
2007-01-26 10:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships don't start because you just ask some guy you have a crush on if he'll go out with you, that doesn't make him your boyfriend. They develop between 2 people who get to know each other over a period of time.
go to Dan, and just ask him when the 2 of you are going to hang out. If he gives you an answer like "umm, I'm not sure, kinda busy, we'll see" walk away and forget about him. If his answer is "I'm free after school, or on Saturday if you want to go see a movie", then just ignore what your friend said and get to know Dan for the person he really is, not just the guy you've had a crush on.
2007-01-26 18:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just wait until you can be alone and just ask him about it. Guys can be really about stuff like this, and he might be afraid to tell you anything for fear of hurting your feelings. But, even though the girl who told you is your best friend, rethink how trustworthy she is. Just a heads up, I'm 22, and I've found out the hard way, that even your "best friends" will screw you over if they really like a guy...
2007-01-26 18:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your friend or best friend does not like him? It looks like she said that only to keep you away from him. If that is the case, you should take to your boyfriend and ask if he really said that. Sometimes, girls do this to their best friends if they want the guy. Good luck.
2007-01-26 18:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a real friend that girl is a with with a capital B find out for your self if the guy really was bad mouthing you.
I think your ex mate is jealous.
2007-01-26 18:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by madmum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him .. All your tricks u pull to fool him will catch up w/ him . He is not a stupid man & he'll see right through u again . #3d times a charm & when its over you will have lost him 4 ever.
2007-01-26 19:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get rid of the awkwardness just tell him that you're sorry things went badly but would still like to be friends. maybe joke with him and stuff to get back to the way it was
2007-01-26 18:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by bananajcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly. You should be able to tell by his answer. I've found girls lie (no offense to your friend) but I would want to hear it from him directly instead of taking anyone else's word for it.
2007-01-26 18:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend probably likes him and wants you to stay away from him. ask her to be honest . If you think she is serious, then ask the guy. make sure he looks straight into you eyes. try to detect any hint of lying. if you think he is, break it off, but if not, you and your friend need to talk.
2007-01-26 18:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him yourself and forget what your friend said-3 is a crowd
2007-01-26 18:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by pico24_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have moved on to a new relationship and you like this other guy better.
give him a hug, and say really gently "sorry" and bat your eyelashes at him..lol.
2007-01-26 18:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋