can a girl go out with her boyfriend wearing lingerie? all my friends say it would be fine but only if we got hot n heavy after leaving the resteraunt. is this ok??? i'm caught between lingerie and a good desicion!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-26 10:48:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the good decision! Dear Sabrina, There may be some things you will regret not doing, but sex is definitely not one of them. Once you have sex, there is no way you can "unhave it". You will never regret not having before, but chancec are you will regret having at early age and still being single.
Why don't you save yourself for the right man and for the right moment?
You need to concentrate on building your fiture, not on destroying your present (and therefore your fiture.) One thing I can promise you with confidence. You sell your body cheap (for a few cheap kisses and some minutes of pleasure) and tomorrow the only thing you will be left with is going to be "why did I do it?" and when you get to meet a wonderful guy for you that has been keeping himself for the right girl, what are you going feel?
Be wise my little princess.
God Bless.
2007-01-26 10:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best decision is always the right one...since u are only 16 my advise to u is wait when it comes to sex....Having a relationship is ok and going out is also fine but if u take it any farther than that u are risking changes that can't be undone....
I would say wear what u want to wear as long as it is casual and u are comfortable....
point blank=lingerie belongs in the bedroom behind closed doors=
2007-01-26 11:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by truckindad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie is made for women, not 16 year olds. Don't give some little punk the pleasure of seeing you in lingerie at your age. Let yourself develop more before you do that.
2007-01-26 10:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lingerie is for you baby. I wear it under clothes when i go just out...it makes me feel good no one has too see it. Its not about any one else. IF your going out with your boy...id say do it it will make you feel better. IT doesn't mean he has to get any that is totaly your choice.
If you mean just wearing a little slip dress and heals then i would say just dont do it because you will end up looking like a hooker.
If you do make the decision to do anything with him its best to have something sexy on under it to get you both in the mood. USe a condom! Lingerie has very powerfull powers so unless your ready don't use unless you can handle it....by handle it i mean the consiquences of sex or being able to say no cause he will be beggin for it. Wear it under your clothes for fun no one has to know its not that serious.
2007-01-26 10:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jungle Luv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can still be classy and not wear lingerie. You are 16. Dress nice. If you want to look like an adult, dont wear lingerie.
I guess a lingerie shirt would look nice but only if you had a jacket to put on and keep on. :) Have fun.
2007-01-26 10:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie is just that underwear, not outer wear. Don't go looking for something that you are too young to deal with. Be smart.
2007-01-26 10:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by J J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with good decision for a little longer - - you are only 16!! And you can never get it back. I have wished a hundred times I could take it back...I wish I had of waited. If your unsure I think your trying to tell yourself something...
Good Luck!
2007-01-26 11:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Moz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT NEED THAT TYPE OF DATE WHERE YOU DRESS UP WITH YOUR LINGERIE. JUST HAVE FUN WITHOUT ALL THE GIRLY ENTICEMENTS. GO ROLLERSKATING OR ICE-SKATING, OR WHATEVER REQUIRES JEANS AND COMFY SHOES ETC. THINK ABOUT YOUR FUTURE AND LOVE TO STUDY COURSES THAT WILL CONTRIBUTE TO YOUR FUTURE. THINK EDUCATION,EXERCISE,FUN. NEVER MIND THE HOT AND HEAVY. THERES PLENTY OF TIME FOR THAT . OTHERWISE YOULL END UP BEING USED INSTEAD OF LOVED.
2007-01-26 11:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out looking like a hooker. thats bad taste. you really dont want to lose self-respect. you could always wear something that would take his breath away but you dont want to wear something so provacative that he thinks your trying to get attention from other guys. if you want to look all hot for him do it behind closed doors. what you 2 do in your own time is your twos personal time. your only 16.!!!!! let your friends do what they want but what i think is if you cared at all for yourself and him you wouldnt do it. its your decision. you make the best choice for yourself.
2007-01-26 11:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where whatever you think is comfortable. Id say take things slowly. Im nearly 15 and i havnt had sex.
Your 16 most 16 year olds have these days.
2007-01-26 10:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋