Hi everyone....I have a serious problem that i dont know how what to do with.....I am just a normal 18 year old guy...I respect everyone and help people as much as I could but I dont have any real friends...All my friends are just "school friends" and no one actually talks to me outside school....I have also never had a girl friend which is driving me crazy....I am just so frustrated and feel lonely...Is there anything wrong with me??.....Please take it seriously
2007-01-26 10:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by CG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am fun to be around but I dont get along with people right away...
2007-01-26 11:02:25 · update #1
Man i had the exact same problem as you did when i started high school. But later on i found some real friends which i still hang out with today. My best advice for you is to pick a group of people that are your type of people (basically some nice people) and just "stick" to them. Try to casually invite yourself to something that they are doing after school or make up something for you and those people to do outside of school. You don't have to make up something big just anything to meet them outside of school like inviting them to the movies or to play some sports at the park on a Saturday morning, anything. Little by little you will get into there group and have friends to go out on the weekend with. Once you got some "real friends" the girlfriends will come soon after. You need to get some real after school friends before you get a girlfriend cause friends are more important unless you meet the women of your dreams or something.
2007-01-26 11:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi lonely 18. Don't worry I didn't have a significant other until I was 20. I think it's really hard now a days to find a partner. I'm not sure why, but finding a gf would be easier if you participate in social events. For example, you should probably get into a sport, and play at a club and eventually you'll know lots of friends. Plus, you're excercising too right. :) Don't rush, GOD has planned a special someone each and every one of us, we just have to be patient. WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE.
2007-01-26 18:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Swarovski <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you other than you are focusing way too much on all the negatives. I would try a little harder at making girlfriends. Why don't you first figure out who you like then try with her? Find someone first who you share the same interests with and then be a fun person to be around.
2007-01-26 18:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. You need to try hanging out with friends and maybe you can meet a nice girl. But, don't think that having a gf is going to solve all your lonliness. Try to become active in other things, hobbies, church groups, school things. Sometimes you just have to learn to entertain yourself. Good luck.
2007-01-26 19:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young u have plently of time to worry about girlfirends. good things happen to those who wait.
2007-01-26 18:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by shy_bell80 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might have a personality that comes on strong or something-I dont know u so i dunno.
2007-01-26 19:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋