max keeps asking me if i wanna have sex but i'm just not ready!!! he stopped asking but he's tellin me in this eyes.........
2007-01-26 10:35:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is good that you have the self-respect to know that you are not ready to have sex with him, and if he is pressuring you, that is wrong.
The most important thing to do is to have open communication with him about it, and not to have that talk while you are making out, but some other time while things aren't all hot and heavy.
Tell him all of you feelings,and concerns. If he disrespects you about it, then maybe you should reconsider whether or not he is the person you want as your boyfriend-- I know that is hard, but if a man doesn't respect you, then he isn't really a good man.
Don't let him pressure you or else you won't be happy about it.
2007-01-26 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this, "I am not ready to have sex with you."
This is something you have to be very direct and to the point with. If he keeps crossing the line, you need to get away from him.
2007-01-26 10:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to respect your decision to wait.. if your not ready.. then you are not ready and there is nothing wrong with that.. don't compromise yourself just to please him..don't give in. When you are ready you will let him know.. If he cares for you he should stop bugging you.. Not everything has to be about sex..
Good for you for knowing what you want..
2007-01-26 10:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say...I'm not ready and I'm not sure if I'll ever be ready to have sex before marriage...... If he truly loves you...he will respect your honesty. If he doesn't love you...he'll be gone soon there after.
But if you give in...he'll be gone and onto the next target.
2007-01-26 10:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really aren't any ways of being clear without him getting a little upset - when they're horny, guys don't really think with their brains, they think with their...downstairs brains. No matter what you say, he'll probably whine or look sad. Just be firm, and let him know that if it means that much to him, he can find someone else!
2007-01-26 10:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to say no ONCE and if he keeps asking he is interested in something else. if he loves you he needs to just get those things out of his head and settle down. my wife and i in the beggining of our relationship we talked about it to keep it straight and we were going to make love when the moment was right. tell him once and that is it. if he just wants to feel how it is like just tell him to masturbate before you go out so he doesnt have sexual tension when he is with you. if you arent ready say no he has to understand and if he doesnt you will have to talk to an adult about it because in the end you could end up in trouble with him, he could force you, or blackmail you with anything or try and influence you into doing it with the old trick of "if you love me you'll do it" remember that isnt true if he gets too close hit him in the nuts he deserves it and you are in your female right. keep your dignity. you go girl :)
2007-01-26 10:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really loved you he wouldn't be pressuring you. Hold strong!!!! If you're not ready, you're not ready. Only you would know if you were ready or not, not him or anybody else. But since I'm christian, I think it's best to wait when you're married sweety. :)
2007-01-26 11:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Swarovski <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! Say your waiting tell when ever you are ready. And you will let him know at that time.
2007-01-26 10:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by RC C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say "listen, i'm not ready to have sex. i don't want t rush anything with you and want to take it slow. when i'm ready, i'll tell you. i need you to respect my wishes because i love you so much and if you love me, then you understand where i'm coming from"
shabooey!
2007-01-26 10:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋