Ok so my parent's are divorced and I go to my dad's every other week. I don't want to sleepover but I on't know how to break it down to him. I know I should but I don't know why but I just don't. What should I say to him. Help me! I need to call him soon!
2007-01-26 10:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie_Pie6464 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
be like "A'Yo pops, I'm not sleepin' OVA"
and hang up k?
2007-01-26 10:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that type of pressure can feel. It almost makes you feel sick from the stress and thoughts building up in your mind.
First think about what you want to say to him. Parents do like to hear their children's thoughts eventhough they say they don't. Write down what you want to say so you don't have it jumbled in your head for a long stretch of time. Make it simple and clear to him what the problem you're having is and how you feel emotionaly about the situation. Try not to get angry or too frusterated that you can't say it without picking a fight when you didn't mean to. Let him know that you are struggling with sleeping over and i'm sure that he will understand in the end and will respect your space. He loves you and will keep on loving you no matter what so take a deep breath and tell him your side of the story.
Good Luck!
-Nora
2007-01-26 10:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by xxxyasavyxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has really hurt you, only you would know that. But you should really give him a chance.sit down and talk with him,share your heart.If that don't work then tell him you need some time,but don't leave there on bad terms. Hes your Dad and hes the only one you got, so try to make the best of it, have the best of both worlds. Him and your Mom got the divorce, not you and your Dad. I wish my Dad was still here so i could tell him I LOVE HIM, cause my Mom and Dad also got a divorce, and i felt the same way but mine was cause of my Mom.Take control of your own mind and do what is best for you, you didn't ask for this they did.
2007-01-26 10:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your specific situation from what little information you have given. If you just don't want to sleep over for this particular weekend, just tell him gently that you have something else you want to do at home or with friends and that you'll make it up to him next time (maybe do something together, like a movie).
If you are saying you don't EVER want to sleep over from now on, well, that's a different story. What is the problem? Is it BORING at his place? Are you away from your friends? Do you miss your mom too much? Is he hard to get along with or does he just ignore you? Maybe you need to discuss this with your mom if there is some kind of underlying problem.
If you get along with him and he is great otherwise, then please reconsider and allow him to have his time with you. Maybe now that you are not a kid anymore, he has trouble communicating with you. Teenagers don't come with instruction manuals, you know! Try to come up with some interesting things to do over at his place or for you two to do together. Maybe he will also allow you to invite a friend over and you can all go to the movies.
Hope things work out!
2007-01-26 10:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he live in the same town? Could you just stop by for the night and watch a game or go to a movie or something "guys" do? Then he could take you back to your house and then maybe you could hang out again the next day?
2007-01-26 10:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by mymohum1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that was my situation aswell.
My father has a evil gf which i hate so much.
He turned ferral since he met her and he doesnt even care about me anymore. When im over he sits in his room smoking pot.
I always have nothing to do there. Just tell him that you dont want to go there anymore.
Im not going to my dad this year. Maybe he will finally see why im not. GOODLUCK xx
2007-01-26 11:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say dad i love you but I'm really not comfortable about this sleepover thing yet
2007-01-26 11:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him the truth, also tell him how you feel
it will hurt him, but at least he'll have the truth. Explain that you still love him as well as that you still want to see him, but that you just dont want to stay over. As you keep on seeing him,you might feel more comfortable with sleeping over him house. just be honset. its the best thing to do
hope this helped- good luck
2007-01-26 10:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 09:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say dad is it ok if i spend the night with u.
2007-01-26 11:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try on working on your relationship with him, then maybe you wont have a problem sleeping over.
2007-01-26 10:45:45 · answer #11 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋