mark has been divorced for over 5yrs but by the way his ex acts u would never know it.she is always trying to get info(always in a sneaky way) about us from my inlaws.for example we told marks 9yr old son we are "thinking" about having a baby.well he must have told his mom as she "ran" over to my inlaws to ask "if they knew about our new baby" but never asked us about it and she sees us all the time.if she is not trying to get info about us then she is bad mouthing us to anyone that will listen.the only "bad" thing mark ever did was divorce her and it was not for me.she just treated him like crap till he could not take it any more and left but left her everything house,car.money.the only reason we put up with it is because of thier son they share we don't want to put him in the middle.is this normal that she is so consumed/bitter with our life still after 5yrs?it started to ware on my nurves how can i deal with this?
2007-01-26 10:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by maryvincent67 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
She needs a new man to occupy her time. Or woman.
Someone willing to put up with her crap, or dish out their own.
2007-01-26 10:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your husband needs to tell her to mind her own business. The only thing they now have in common is the child. That should be the only topic of conversation between them.
Why is she still in contact with his family? How weird is that? Where's their family loyalty? Sounds like ya'll are way too intertwined in each other's lives... I'd encourage your husband to create some distance there...
2007-01-26 18:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there girl...talk to your husband about this, tell him your worries and these, well, negative feelings you have about whole thing...be strait with him....listen what he has to say....
she will probably continue to be busybody...hopefully that is all she can do right now..and she is not turning the kid against his father or you...look on the bright side...soonest she finds somebody to share her life with, it will surely reduce to almost nothing...i mean her intrest...
2007-01-26 10:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since they have a son together ofcourse she's going to be interested.. because your lives affect the son's life.
is the Son living with you or come to stay over?
If the son doesn't stay with you guys ever then i'd say she needs to butt out.. but if he is then it's valid for her to be nosey .. to an extent.. some peopel Can go overboard with it.
2007-01-26 10:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by debimoonfae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraing order shes a nut.
2007-01-26 13:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has nothing better to do and regrets her decision to divorce your husband.
2007-01-26 11:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU ONLY KNOW HIS SIDE OF THE STORY, NOT HERS
SECOND , SHE'S HIS SON'S MOTHER - GET USED TO THIS
NOW BECAUSE SHE'LL BE IN YOUR LIFE A GOOD LONG
TIME
SET HER UP WITH A GUY FOR A DATE - MAYBE THAT'LL KEEP HER BUSY
2007-01-26 10:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She is probably just nosy!
2007-01-26 10:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋