do introverts and extroverts tend to be attracted to each other? how does an introvert see an extrovert and vice versa? how was it like being attracted to your opposite?
2007-01-26 09:55:58 · 8 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-26 09:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introverts see extroverts as popular, exciting, interesting individuals. They enjoy the attention of an extrovert and all the spontaneous that comes with it. Extroverts like introverts because they are mysterious and a challenge, so they want to try to unlock the secret to this person and find out more about them.
I am usually attracted to extroverts since I am a bit docile at first. Extroverts to me, make my life a little more exciting than it usually is and that always makes me happy.
2007-01-26 18:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's books and books on this. Check out the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator books (MBTI).
It's a personality test to help people understand how different types interact. And, introversion versus extroversion is the first delineation.
I'm sort of a mild extrovert and my wife is a mild introvert, I think. She thinks things through better, is more cautious and calculating, maybe sometimes more collected and rational. I can make more good decisions more quickly. Sometimes maybe I need to be around people where she's happy with just a book.
This is a whole field of study. Not sure how much you can answer here. Check out the Myers-Briggs books.
2007-01-26 18:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Murphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed we love opposites they complete us. Whatever we can't do they can and vice versa. To of the same are either BORING or explosive. Yin and Yang is the way to go.
2007-01-26 18:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by cmpg2844 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. my husband is an into, and i'm an extra. he says that he likes that i can make friends for him , so he doesn't have to try. also, that i will talk to him, even when he doesn't want to say anything. i like him, because he doesn't always like my talking and so i enjoy irritating him by doing so. i also find his intro ways interesting. i like to be around someone different because they tend to have strengths in the things i am weak in. he says he likes that about ne too. my strengths are his weaknesses. you've heard that opposites attract, right?
2007-01-26 18:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anu Y. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They bring the best and worst out in each other. They are really good for each other.
2007-01-26 18:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I'm a little of both.
2007-01-26 18:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting but not easy, tense from time to time ...
2007-01-26 18:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋