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2007-01-26 09:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

iam 15 almost 16

2007-01-26 09:58:38 · update #1

and iAM MOING IN WITH SOME CLOSE FRIENDS

2007-01-26 10:29:12 · update #2

*moving .............

2007-01-26 10:30:26 · update #3

17 answers

Depends how old you are. If you're under 18 yrs of age...it may be difficult. If you're 15 it's next to impossible......but if you're of age..you sit your parents down, and tell them you feel you are ready to move out on your own and you hope they respect your decision. I hope you are financially able to move out on your own...it's not cheap to pay rent, electric bills(heat and water), tv, phone, internet, food, clothing, furniture, dishes, towels,..etc*. If you Are able to afford all that, you are working*, then there should be no problem in telling your parents*~
GoodLucK*

2007-01-26 09:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0 1

Easy if yer 18+ Hey mom and dad.. I want to move out... chances are good that they will do a little dance hug each other and say to themselves "FINALLY" ! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

if under age 18.. you can petition the courts for a declaration of emancipation BTW.. (good luck to ya.. Only thing I enjoy more than seeing me suffer is some idiot suffering more than me)

Hell If you were MY KID.. i'd be renting a U-haul at this point.. GO BABY GO singing along the packing..

BTW come back and tell me about it once you do.. I've been on my own efectivly since i was 15.. I'm gonna place a bet it wasnt what you thought it was gonna be... I'll place a large bet in fact.. and I can afford it.. i've been retired 10 years now at age 47 kiddo

2007-01-26 09:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1 0

Okay first of all how old are you? Can you afford to pay your own bills? Have you sat down and made up a plan? It's great to stomp your feet and say "I am so out of here!!!" and walk out. But without a plan you are left with your belongings piled and stacked up around you and you have nowhere to live. Sure your friends will be there, but you seriously need to think this thing through. With your own place (even if you share) you still need enough money to live on and pay the bills. Mommy and daddy won't be paying the utilities, groceries, or gas for your vehicle, not to leave out the insurance and maintenance. If you have gone through this and found you can budget yourself a good stable life on your own... then simply tell them your plan and the fact you have it so it will work. Tell them you are doing this because you feel you are ready matured as well as financially. And give them the breakdown as to what your plan is and that will prove to them you are ready and they are always welcome to stop by and visit (but let them know the boundaries).

2007-01-26 10:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by 2True2Real 2 · 0 0

If you're old enough then just say "mom, dad I have to tell you something. I'm moving out." They'll be so excited that you're not pregnant or something that they will feel better about it. It's always hard but if you tell them where you're moving, who you're moving with, and show them where you'll live they will be more okay with it. Good luck and remember just cause you move out doesn't mean that you cant see them all the time anymore. Going home for some great meals is always a plus

2007-01-26 09:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Candi 2 · 1 1

u better stop and think seriously about what u think u want, U can't even support ur self how and where r u going to go? Don't be foolish and make a mistake u might end up regretting. If u can't stand living with the people that love and provide for u,how r u going to deal with living on the streets?

2007-01-26 10:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends on if you have a good relationship with your parents or not. Some parents welcome their children growing up and becoming adults, others don't want them to leave and will be upset. I would take that into consideration before you talk to your parents.

If it were me, I would tentatively find a place first, have a decent job and have a plan. If you are over eighteen they really can't stop you no matter what they say.

2007-01-26 09:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by beach 4 · 0 0

Grow up and tell them. It's really quite simple. Make your plans on the side. If you're over 18, they can whine and moan, but then you move anyways. Just be careful you don't "burn your bridges" with the parents! If your new living arrangements don't work out so well, guess where you'll be returning to? Keep that in mind and GO FOR IT!

2007-01-26 09:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0 1

You should do your research first. Check out Bankrate.com and use their budgeting tools to make sure that you have accounted for all the expenses involved in moving out, and that you can afford it. Do the research on places to live, and have a contingency plan ready in case your roommate (if planned) bugs out on you or you lose your job.

Present all this information as a mature, rational adult and if you are one, what can they say?

Be prepared for them to have valid, practical concerns, and to address them. Be prepared for an emotional response, and let them know that it's not without emotion for you.

2007-01-26 09:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Karen M 3 · 0 0

At 15 you don't. They would be bad parents if they let you. If you are abused call child protective services and become a ward of the system and see how foster parents suit you.

2007-01-26 10:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Bullfrog21 6 · 0 0

OK FIRST OF ALL I WANT TO KNOW HOW OLD ARE YOU. MOST LIKELY THEY WILL OR WONT LET YOU MOVE IT. DEPENDING ON IF YOUR MOVING ON YOUR OWN, OR WITH SOMEONE. SOME PARENTS CAN BE VERY PROTECTIVE OF THERE KIDS. YOU JUST NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH THEM AND TALK TO THEM. TELL THEM THAT YOU DO RESPECT THEM AND THEIR CHOICES, AND YOU APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT THEY HAVE DONE FOR YOU. BUT YOU HAVE TO START MAKING YOUR OWN DECISIONS IN LIFE, AND THAT YOU WANT TO MOVE. IT MAY OR MAY NOT WORK BUT DON'T GET MAD BECAUSE THAT WILL JUST PROVE TO THEM THAT YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MOVE ON YOUR OWN. JUST SAY OK MOM AND DAD I RESPECT UR DECISION AND JUST KEEP MENTIONING ABOUT IT.

2007-01-26 10:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mrz.IcED 2 · 0 0

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