There's this one guy i met my freshman year of college. i was studying for the psych midterm in the library and he asked to study with me. I've had a crush on him since then.
Since then wehnever he sees me we get into a conversation and we seem to have a lot of fun. Now I'm a senior and he's a 2nd year med student. he still goes to the same school. i now occassionally see him. I think I like him and I think I should tell him but I tremble when I want to tell him. How do I tell him? I think what held me back was that I occasionally saw a girl with him and I thought he was taken. My friends said that they don't think he's taken. How do i tell him?
2007-01-26 09:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last time I told a guy I liked him, in high school, he freaked out and wouldn't dare to look at me or talk to me for a whole month.
2007-01-26 10:04:08 · update #1
First.... remember that this isn't highschool anymore. The boys are men now, and not as scared of women.... well, some may be, but it sounds as though this one isn't!!!
Ask him if he is seeing someone. That question is usually a good sign to let someone know that you are insterested.
If he asks why, just say that you wanted to invite him out for coffee, or a movie, and that you didn't wan tto step on anyones toes.
It's always hard. I never got used to having to let people know i liked them.
Just jump on in the deep end.
2007-02-02 17:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by originalpuppycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH, that is so cute! It seems like you two have some chemistry going on somewhere down the line. My advice to you, would be... "Don't give up". Although I do think you should tell him how you're feeling, before someone else does. You don't want to let this pass you by... do you? Get some alone time with him, look him in the eyes, and say whatever you feel in your heart! I'm sure he'd be so touched. Girl you better go ahead... Good Luck to ya!
2007-01-26 18:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, don't waste any more time or he WILL be taken. The next time you see him, talk to him about anything you may have in common...then give him your number and ask him to call you. Say "I'd love it if you called me. Let's catch up." even better, try to chat for a while, then look at your watch and say "Wow, I have to go. But we still have so much to cover, so here's my number." If he doesn't call, he's not interested. Sad but true.
2007-01-26 17:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by french7suzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask him if he is free for lunch or dinner sometime or even a cup of coffee---I am sure his schedule is hectic being a med student. it is worth a try--------if all goes well maybe he will ask you the next time.
2007-01-26 17:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by nickle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm kind of shy .and i'll never tell first even i like him so deep.but i'll support you if u choose to tell him.once you make up your mind to let him know,it's no need to hesitited anymore.just tell him directly.i know he has the same feeling of you
2007-02-03 03:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by kelen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him one day to have cup of coffee with you adn go and just talk communication can be there greatest thing and go from there.
2007-02-02 21:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him,be friends,like he never want to leave you and let time lets its course
2007-02-03 01:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by angele d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and tell what you really like him.
2007-02-03 02:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋