I never ever thought that I was pretty even when I had my 1st boyfriend at 15.
Now I'm a little bit older, much wiser but still lacking confidence & self esteem.
Lately I've started getting alot more male attention and I've got an absolutely stunning boyfriend.
Still I find myself wondering "what the hell do they see in me?"
It makes me nervous and paranoid that they're all doing it to laugh at me & make me look stupid. Is it reasonable to think like this as I was always the "single", "plain" one in my group of pretty friends?
This attention could never go to my head because I don't believe it to be honest but girls that were once friendly with me are being quite cold whenever I talk to them and there's been a few rumours about me sleeping arround. I've NEVER done anything like that! I've only ever slept with one person in my life! I'm soooooo confused :( what's goin on???
2007-01-26 09:28:56 · 7 answers · asked by Ciderlolly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're clearly lacking in self confidence.These rumours are being spread by people that obviously have issues with you. Put two and two together love: we only slag people off if we're jealous of them!
You are pretty: hence the boyfriend: hence the arseholes being hostile!
Chill girl and bask in your prettiness. Take care to stay beautiful on the inside though!
Kate xxx
2007-01-26 10:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by celestinerocks85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are still very young. DONOT give any importance to any of your so called friends. All they are doing is making you feel guilty. Believe me! I am 37 now but all my life my sister has called names to me and told me that I have a funny face. And she managed to snatch my confidence away from me. No one helped me. Now when I look back there were so many boys who wanted to be my friends and more and I thought they are making fun of me. You are an attractive women inside and out and always remember that bueaty lies in the eyes of beholder and your boyfriend has found that bueaty which is shining in your face.
2007-01-26 17:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by istupidice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens .. When i was back in Jr High (In the stone age.. Barny rubble used to steal my test answers) there were those considered FUGLY... run into em late in life.. and it's OMFG!.. and some of the cutisie cheeleader types turned out to be.. Umm how do I put this? Make ya wanna poke yer eyes out?
You just cant tell sometimes...
2007-01-26 17:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just lacking in self confidence at the moment, he must like you or he wouldnt be with you, just because he is good looking dosent mean he is untouchable, usually the good looking ones turn out to be bores!!!
2007-01-26 17:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by ann_jacques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just lack confidence. i have been through the same. just enjoy it, dont fret about it or it may show in your relationship and cause arguments or something.
Good Luck!
2007-01-26 18:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of it girl!
2007-01-26 17:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in a mirror theyre usin u for sumthin...possibly a bet?
2007-01-26 17:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋