I met this guy over a couple of months now. When we finally got close and he invited me to his home we played around and fondled each other. I refused to have sex with him and he seemed quite fine with it, cause i said i wanted to wait. After that same day I texted and called him but until now he has not replied to me. When i see him he acts as if he does not know me. What did i do wrong cause iam a very attreactive girl.
2007-01-26 09:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by CHRISTINA L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, he wanted sex. That was his only motive.
The only thing you did wrong was go to the house of a man who invited you expecting sex. Be smarter and get the agenda clear next time.
Move on and find a better guy.
2007-01-26 09:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are passive and at times when we are disappointed or angered, we simply avoid the situation. He is avoiding you because you are making him work too hard and maybe he is not looking for a relationship just a fling buddy.Its easier for him to find better targets. I believe you are a class act, try not to let him bring you down.
2007-01-26 17:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you my dear!! He is a playa and you were just going to be another conquest in his life. Someone he could brag to his "boys" about. You deserve someone better than that!!! Don't waste another minute on him! I know easier said than done but there is someone out there who will respect your decision and be there when you are ready to take that next step.
2007-01-26 17:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by cheeks4u21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he, much like many guys nowadays, only wanted a quick lay. Most guys when they can't get in your pants want nothing to do with you. Unfortunately, many could care less about you even if you let them have their way.
There ARE some good, noble, decent men still out there. I know. I am one. Good luck.
2007-01-26 17:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do decide the time is right. It should be because you love them, not because someone tries to make you feel guilty for not doing it. Don`t rush yourself. People make mistakes when they rush. Good luck in the future.
2007-01-26 17:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to hit it you wouldn't let him so he lost interest. No major tragedy - your better without that kind of guy.
2007-01-26 17:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn,t do anything it look like he wasn,t to use you for forplay the old saying wam bam thank-you mam.what a as=hole.he is.
2007-01-26 17:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered you via email
2007-01-26 17:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being an asshole and just wanting you for sex
dont fall for it, honey...
and if ur attractive, why dont you find another guy?
2007-01-26 17:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by love will always come back 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christina...Its not your fault. When you're not ready...that's it, you're not ready. So, if he's getting with someone that's easier than that's his problem.
2007-01-26 17:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋