sister in law wants to have a baby again?

Question

when i got pregnant, my sister in law decided she wanted to get pregnant again. she's in school full time, and so is her husband. they don't work and they have a 19 month old son. both my inlaws and her husband's mom watch the baby when they're not there... which is most of the time. they don't pay for any bills... the parents pay for them. yet, my mother in law is all for her getting pregnant again. should she have another baby? or wait?

Answer 1

i know your pain a friend of mine is the same way she has 2 kids and she wants another one i think because another friend of ours and my sister has just give birth and now she is not the center of attention which she can`t stand i told her that she really didn`t need anymore kids because she always grips about money and children cost alot

so if i was you i would tell her she needs to wait until she and her husband get out of school so they will have time for themselves and there family

my sister is a full time student , single mother,and has a full time job and it take all she has to spend time with her children

so good luck

i wish you the best with your pregnancy

Answer 2

Unfortunately it is not your choice to make. I personally think they should wait. It is unfair to the children to bring them into the world when they can not take care of them. It is not the grandparents or the taxpayers responsibility. But people like that are selfish and can't see past their own nose.
I would just concentrate on being a good aunt and let it go.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Its as a lot as you, yet i appreciate that concept. That feels like a very relaxing way of finding out the sex of your infant. and do not pay interest to all of us else, surprisingly those that would want to't examine the position you stated the first one turned right into a finished flop... second infant showers are more advantageous than mandatory various the time. Congrats and performance relaxing:)

Answer 4

Its really none of your business unless their lives effects you somehow. Be thankful they are both in school and trying and be thankful they have someone who can help them.