I found out he just used and strung me along the whole time,i found out he had been seeing another co-worker and moved her into his place. Should i show her the photo's and videos i have of me and him to show her what he's really like or leave it and just slap him instead or pour cold coffee over his head?
2007-01-26 09:12:27 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's my thing...I would rat him out. Tell her everything and just say that you want to make sure she understands what she's getting into with him. Tell her you have proof of your relationship if she needs to see it. He'll be super pissed but do you care? Pray she leaves him too so he ends up alone.
P.S. I'm sorry...not all guys are creeps. Keep looking for a good one...he's out there!
2007-01-26 09:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a hard question... I was strung along and used as well one time and found out that he was seeing someone else. I wanted to tell her, and show her pics, evidence, etc. of the times when he was with me... but in all honesty, the girl wouldn't have believed me b/c he would have just told her that I was crazy and making it up or that it was a long time ago and I was his crazy ex or something.
In my opinion, I think that people believe what they want to believe, despite the truth, so if your goal is to break them up or make the other girl not like the guy anymore, it prob. won't work. I think that you should do whatever you feel you need to do to get past this and move on from him, b/c obviously, he is a stupid ****** and you deserve better than that. If showing the girl photos will help you get over him, then do it! if slapping him and telling him off will aid in your wellbeing, then do that too! again, just whatever you feel is best for YOU. sometimes that may even include just letting it go and ignoring him, or even pretending he never existed.
hope that you feel better about the situation soon, I know that it's hard.
2007-01-26 09:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by caiten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to live well. Make a happy life for yourself. When he comes back groveling because he has created a miserable life for himself then you'll feel justified. Even if he doesn't try to come back... he'll know you're doing well and he'll regret what he did for the rest of his life. For now... (I know it's easier said than done... but) I wouldn't do a thing. If you do then you'll end up looking like the @ss. You don't want that. Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-26 09:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to come across jealous (even if you're not, that may be the impression you give off).
I know you really don't want to pour cold coffee over his head...scorching hot Folger's should do it.
No matter how much you want to physically inflict pain on him, your best bet, and this really is your best bet, is to act like it is no shirt off of your back. Just act like it doesn't even bother you. His loss. And it will irk him, even if he doesn't say anything, if really will get to him.
2007-01-26 09:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should do all of the above. Not only has this guy used you but in the end you deserved better... Revenge would feel so sweet after each of these tasks were accomplished. Take it like a check off list!
2007-01-26 09:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on, there are a lot of decent men out there who won't lie to you. You've been strung along by a two timer who has no feelings for anyone but himself.
2007-01-26 09:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn the lesson and move on. You can do better. Any show of emotion will just boost his ego. Really. Just let go.
Secretly, feel sorry for his new girlfriend because you know what's coming but she doesn't.
2007-01-26 09:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are at your employement then u certainly don't want to pour coffee on him. I would ask her if she wants to see the videos.If she doesn't then move on.But don't jeopardize your job for some silly a s s man.
2007-01-26 09:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are all really good ideas. I think you should definately send her the pictures of you guys together. Is there anything in the pictures that will prove to her that they were taken while he was seeing her? Good luck - a love it when people get revenge after being cheated on. I'll be rooting for ya.
2007-01-26 09:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-26 09:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋