MEN in need your help is he with someone ele honestly whats ur opinion????
met this guy at christmas we got on went away for 2 weeks and he was so sweet wanted to introduce me to his parents everything then....he has only had 2 serious relationships one for five yrs another six months. initially he was texting me all the time really really in to me we even looked at houses spent new years in a hotel together ..then all of a sudden he went cold said he had been thinking about things for a few days and he dint know if he wanted a realtionship..he still talks to me occassionally phones me...tellls me he thinks im lovely i know he still cares...but wants to go out with his mates and doesnt want a serious realtionship right now maybe later...does this mean he just doent want me why do things turn intially i was not even in to him how do i get him back to the way he was whats the best strategy he wont even see me know because he says us having contact make it hard for him whats the best way to be to regain that interest???
2007-01-26 09:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm not a guy or even close, but I've been in situation's close to yours. In my case it was the other way around, where I met a wonder full guy, spent lots and lots of time, met each others family's, all in love and he probley would still be with me now, if I hadn't done the same as he did to you. All the sudden I was feeling smothered, like it was all going way too fast, I got scared, so instead of talking w/you about it, it sometimes seems easier to STOP, put the breaks on and pull out of the race.
So where I'm trying to get at is, don't seem to me that there another girl in his life, maybe he just felt as if the wheels were Turing to fast and he needed to get off, because that seemed easier then slowing them down.
2007-01-26 09:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by D lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i'm no longer a fella although the same component handed off to me only in the previous Christmas so i recognize the way you sense. It hurts. There are those who communicate the communicate yet they don't walk the walk. In different words they say various of issues they sense on the time yet then their movements do not save on with on. I trust Scott. in the experience that your chum got here to you and reported each and every of the above issues, what ought to you assert to her..... you've each and every of the solutions. save your dignity. a minimum of you owe that to your self. It takes 2 to be in a relationship and also you do not ought to take this crap. Make up your make up your ideas you do not go with him and take administration of the priority it will make you sense a tremendous purchase better. And in case you do imagine you go with him then you genuinely go with to artwork on your self esteem and commence being the guy you go with to be to allure to a guy that benefits you. i recognize this sounds harsh yet when he can only trash your thoughts regardless of each and everything the empty supplies he has made, is he extremely well worth beginning a serious relationship with? He sounds very immature and insensitive. you could income this much better. good to wallow interior the distress and then get indignant. Make up your ideas you deserve so a lot more desirable and mentally ditch the guy..... Take care and in some months he will propose no longer some thing. And once you meet that particular guy you'd be so happy you probably did not waste a second longer in this one..... in truth dropping worthwhile time in this jerk stops you from assembly your next beautiful boyfriend. considering you x
2016-10-16 03:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for an event that occurred just prior to his change. Was it a sexual encounter that wasn't ideal for him. It's possible that he thinks you are not sexual matches. Don't present yourself as anything different than you actually are in that aspect. He may think he can't satisfy you or that you can't (or won't satisfy him). Even though this isn't the only important part of a relationship it is a crucial part, especially if his last relationships were mismatches in that area.
2007-01-26 09:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about backing off a little, and let him come after you?
2007-01-26 09:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋