I really like this guy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me too, but he doesn't know I like him and is too shy to ask. We have a valentines dance coming up and I really want to go with him. How do I get him to notice me without looking desperate or makeing it really obvious?
2007-01-26 09:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him sweet, Life is short we spend are whole time wondering what if, I wish I had, go for it.... hope it works out for you!
2007-01-26 09:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i answered another question with this answer before but i can't help it...
it works all the time
try giving him eye contact as in look across to him, wait until he notices u , hold the gaze 5 secs and turn away
he should keep watching to see if you do it again
try delivering one or more fleeting smiles.
just a quick half smile.
you can also sit up straight and cross your legs and ankles.
if standing tilt ur hip and tilt ur head sidways towards a shoulder
play with ur hair 4 about 6 seconds.
you can try lipgloss however if the school or ur parents don't allow it
try licking ur lips!
there r also other gestures to show u r interested....
the head toss and hair flick
wet lips and pouting, mouth slightly opened
Self-touching (slowly stroke, ur neck, for example)
fondling a cylindrical object
exposing the wrist
sideways glance over raised shoulder (with partially drooped eyelids, hold his gaze just long enough 4 him to notice, then quickly look away)
Rolling hips and hands on hip gesture
the shoe fondle (dangling the shoe on the end of the foot)
the knee point (one leg is tucked under the other and points to the crush)
the leg twine
why not try to know what he is in for and learn abit about it (football, for example)
this way you can lead a conversation if u get the golden chance!
good luck
2007-01-27 07:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by buzylizzie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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without makeing it really obvious?
Guys are dumb. They do not understand hints, signals, signs or signals and dont know girl rules
You have to ask him out or get touchy feely ie tickling, hugging sleeping on him till he gets used to you enough to start touching you up so you can kiss him.
Before mention other stuff... Age please so say the right thing
2007-01-26 11:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation once, 'very long time ago though', it's hard
to ask someone out face to face, in fear of them saying 'no'. What this girl done was to slip a little note in my jacket pocket,
saying something like " i like you will you take me out some time"
I can say the note worked.
Perhap's you could e-mail or text him.
Good luck.
ps let me know what happened.
2007-01-26 10:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Bill UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahahahaha @ Ecko!
Seriously girl, just ask him out. If you're that sure he likes you, what the hell are you hesitating for?! Go for it!
2007-01-26 10:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by celestinerocks85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath, and ask him to the dance
2007-01-26 09:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by spicytruelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use you imagination if he is a red blooded male he will notice you
2007-01-26 09:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wear any knickers, grab his hand and place it where the furry cup runeth over......he'll notice you then
2007-01-26 09:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ecko 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋