im 18 and ive never had a gf in my life. and i am also a virgin. am i supposed to be like this or something? should i get a gf now? i dont have anyone in mind too.
2007-01-26 08:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT RUSH THINGS, YOU ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL. THE RIGHT GIRL WILL COME NOT BECAUSE YOU WANTED HER JUST FOR A GIRL FRIEND BUT BECAUSE THAT IS MEANT FOR YOU. ALOT OF PERSONS (GUYS) DONT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND BUT ARE PERFECTLY FINE WITH LIFE. TAKE CARE
2007-01-26 09:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Christina L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, honestly i think that there is no 'way' anybody is supposed to be. if you have friends and hang out with girls as friends than that's where it all starts. it might not be a good idea to go looking for a girl solely for the purpose of being a girlfriend than so much as being a friend who could give you advice, or introduce you to reliable people. Once you have a friend who is a girl than you can become more comfortable around them. please PLEASE dont feel pressured into having a gf for the wrong reasons, you could seriously hurt someone or yourself.
the more important thing to ask yourself is do i have any friends (just friends) who are girls? this is because you want to know if there is a reason girls might not feel comfortable around you. (remember its ignorant to think all girls like this or all girls hate that cause thats a generalization and WRONG)
DUDE, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so dont settle for bad ones. AND there are lots of places to look for and meet new people with similar interests nowadays. maybe if you improve your confidence cause i KNOW ur really cool, girls will come to you! Buena Suerte Chico!
2007-01-26 09:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by JulyBeetle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not falling behind. I am in a similar situation to you even though I've had some gf. There are alot of people out there that are worse then you. If you find a girl that you like go for it, other wise just hang out and do your own thing until that girl that you like comes around.
2007-01-26 09:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not "supposed" to be like anything... Everyone is different. If you have no one in mind, then don't worry about getting a girlfriend right now. You will find the right person eventually. You just have to enjoy life and let everything fall into place...
2007-01-26 09:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by dreammaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you dont have a girlfriend-no big deal-when the time is right it will happen. Nothing says you have to have a GF just because you are 18. If it doesnt happen until you are 30----so what.
2007-01-26 09:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... if your asking if you are weird than you are not.. i have friends that are 20 21 that are still virgins...maybe the reason why you haven't had a girlfriend is b/c you don't look for one or you don't know how to approach them...some girls are picky and so are guys...you just need to let a girl come to you if you don't knwo what to do...but have you ever like read a book on dating or even tried getting some tips to impress girls? i mean you are able to go out to night clubs...
2007-01-26 09:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 00:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should probably do something with ur look...change it up a bit and just look around for someone u might like. but dont force it, i mean if ur still not looking for a relationship then just wait until the time is right!
2007-01-26 09:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't look....when a girl you're interested in comes around then you can act on pursuing her...but don't look around because it may possibly lead you to looking desperate.....chill and focus on another area of your life that helps you feel fulfillment....don't get your head wrapped up in HAVING to find a girlfriend....the right girl will probably come when you least expect her to
2007-01-26 09:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋