i'm 13 (14 in 2 months). i have a slim figure, dark brown hair, tan skin, and i'm pretty physically mature. i'm a straight a student, i'm not ugly (i think), i'm nice, i'm really talented, and i'm almost always happy. why dont guys like me? i just found out today from my crush's friend that he doesnt like me. well..as a girlfriend i mean. he also said that i can be annoying sometimes. and i just dont understand that. i mean like..everyone can be annoying at one point or another..and the thing is, he's like the 20th guy to not like me...and any guy i go out with ends up dumping me after 5 to 7 days...why dont guys like me? what can i do to change this?? i'm always crying because of things like this. HELP!
2007-01-26 08:55:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE TOO SMART FOR GUYS RIGHT NOW.
Keep studying. They are not worth your time, honey. They are intimidated by you and don't know how to communicate.
Time wasted with idiots is time you will never get back. Keep focusing on yourself. YOU ARE WORTH IT! DON'T EVER SETTLE.
2007-01-26 09:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well guys whill dump the girl or the girl will dump the guy at that age, after a couple weeks of dating. It is too young to be in a "relationship". They either get bored, or scared because they are feeling things that isn't normal to them. When I was in Jr.High, was shy, it seemed like only the guys I didn't like, liked me! When I went to high school I was still shy, and dated some, but broke up with the boys after a couple of weeks( for reason stated above lol) All in All After school, I felt more outgoing and felt like it iwas ok to approach people. Not in an annoying way, but as a friend. Just talk . It made me look confident that attracted guys. I think that is the key, don't try to hard....but be confident.
2007-01-26 17:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just it...you're so worried and consumed about it that it's making these guys uncomfortable. You should learn to be into yourself and do things that make you happy. Once a guy sees that you're a genuinly good person, he'll want to date you. Remember, desperation is like a scent. A guy can actually smell how badly you want him to like you. This makes you too easy to get and a man loves a challenge. Stop focusing so much and let it all go. Tell yourself "I don't care anymore" and you'll feel yourself change for the better.
2007-01-26 17:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Try to be open to many different people. Be mysterious, when guys are giving you the eye look them in the eye for a few seconds then look away, always smile. Don't talk toooooooo much cuz guys tend to think that gets anoying sometimes. Get interested in things they enjoy (ask them how there basketball game went or something). Don't share EVERYTHING about youself all at once spread it out. I hope my addvice is help to you good luck!
2007-01-28 23:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that your question should be "why don't guys like me?" But rather "Do I like myself?" You have to be comfortable within for other people to see it on the outside. You are trying so hard to get other people to like you when I don't believe you know exactly what it is you are looking for. For a female to say that she has gone through 20 different men is a clear indication that she is searching for love in all of the wrong places. STOP! And find yourself within and love yourself before you can share with others. Maybe you should even pull back at the way in which you approach men and just relax and be yourself.
2007-01-26 17:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Swan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and don't go boyfriend shopping. Actually, it could be that you are too aggressive or clingy around boys. Take care of yourself first- everything else will follow. I've always found that as soon as I started enjoying being single- that's when I would get the most dates. Life's messed up like that. Anyway, you still got many yrs. until Prom!!
2007-01-26 17:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by live75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a b/f in order to be happy. Your dream guy will come to you when it's the right time. You don't want to date stupid guys anyways its just a waste of time. You sound to be great. I think that they're the stupid ones for passing you up. Maybe its because youre so smart. Don't change in order to get a guy. Be yourself and a guy will come to you.
2007-01-26 17:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be this concerned about boys....love is out there somewhere, but there will be plenty of disappointments along the way. I'm 24 and still looking for prince charming.
2007-01-26 17:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by TI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, its the guys. It takes them longer to mature. Maybe your too good for them any way. There's plenty of guys out there. When I was your age I had only had one "kind of boyfriend'. You're in middle school, huh? Time will come around. :-)
2007-01-26 17:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit crying over boys. You are only 13, you have a long life ahead of you to be worrying about whether some snot-nose boy likes you or not. Go blow your nose and watch some cartoons.
2007-01-26 17:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by frigginhilarious 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean, are u like someone they consider to be just a friend? guys are retarded and every girl will tell u that. Ask your best guy friend if theres anything he would change about your personality, but remember, dont change for a guy, if he doesnt like you for you he's not worth it......
2007-01-26 17:05:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋