I really like one of my friends Parker, and pretty sure he likes me too, but I just recently found out my best friend likes him too. We have a valentines dance coming up @school and I think he's gonna ask me. My friend told me 2 go4 it and say yes if he asks, but I know she only said that cuz she doesn't want to be mad or upset. I might be sad but not mad. I don't know what 2 do I really like him but don't know if hes worth loosing a friend 4. I know wont loose her as a friend but it just wouldn't be the same between us.
What should I do? HELP!!!
2007-01-26 08:50:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to think about which is more important to you, your crush or your friend. Is he even worth it? If you know that your relationship with him is going to be over shortly anyway, I would advise you to pick your friendship over him.
it also depends on how good of a relationship you have w/ your friend. If you think she really means what she says and you think that she;ll get over it, then go for it.
good luck : D
2007-01-26 09:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might want to ask him out before she does. Don't wait for him to ask you, he may not get the chance. Just ask him out. Your friend already gave you the go, and it's not like you're getting married to him at the dance.
2007-01-26 08:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that youre going to let the guy choose one of you so if the guy asks you out there wont be no hard feelings. and if he likes your friend you shouldnt be mad. just move on
2007-01-26 08:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you then go with him because that's a clear sign that he likes you too and not your friend, she'll move on there's no reason to say no when a guy likes you and you like him too over because a friend likes him if she's a good friend she won't be me if you go and she'll want what's best for you
2007-01-26 08:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~Holls~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go with what you want to do. If you really like this guy I think you should go 4 it but, if you think you want your friend instead. Then do what feels best because u don't want to regret this.
2007-01-26 08:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by candyprincess100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key line....she is telling you to say yes!!!! Not all friends would be so nice. Its just a dance, not a marriage proposal.
2007-01-26 09:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by TI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you should each pick a different boy to go with. That way you aren't competing against each other.
2007-01-26 08:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out as trust me the guy aint gonner understand anything else
2007-01-26 11:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for it. and tell u'r gal pal " i like this guy, i know u like him 2 ." if u loose her over a guy then it is time 4 a new gal.i lost my best bud 4 a guy. but i say "GO FOR IT!"if u like him.
2007-01-26 09:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after him. You will outgrow her eventually anyways. Is that what you wanna hear? Because you know the answer to your own question.
2007-01-26 09:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋