I had really strong feelings for this guy. We were seeing eachother for a while, not reallly serious. Then he got a real serious gf. They always said things like how they want to grow old with eachother, etc.So I figured, my hopes with this guy are done. Then he cheated on her with me (I didn't know they were together still). They broke up. We fooled around a few more times (because the physical between us is really good!) 2 months later he got back with her. Apparently they realized they couldn't live without eachother & they again would say how they want to grow old together. He wrote her something that said how he loves her so much &will spend the rest of his life with her &that he will prove it to her. 4 days after he told her that, he asked me to come over & we slept together. So he cheated on her again with me (I didn't know til after). Why would he do that to her if he wants to marry her? I don't get it. He has know idea that I know he is with his gf again. I dont kno what 2 do
2007-01-26 08:45:19 · 6 answers · asked by BranBear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same as women!!!
2007-02-02 07:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be quite obvious what to do!!!! He has quite a record of cheating & why do you want any part of him? This guy is a player & wants his cake & eat it too, & you are allowing it by playing into his hands. He's not the only fish in the sea.Knowing what you know about him, do yourself a big favor & move on. Nothing good will come out of this situation where you're concerned. Walk away from this mess & don't look back!
2007-02-03 16:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the obvious thing here is that he doesn't really love her like he says he does. I mean, honestly, if you are so infatuated with someone that you are ready to be engaged to them, then you wouldn't even be thinking about being with other people and you certainly wouldn't be breaking up with them all the time. I think on/off relationships are bulls***t. They usually consist of two people who are so insecure that they need to have that security blanket (i.e. the person they're on/off with) ready and waiting for them to curl up with when they get lonely for a relationship. People will fool themselves into thinking the reason they're back-and-forth is b/c there must be something there (i.e. "love") when really, that "something" is insecurity. I bet that even if they do get engaged, they never make it down the isle...and if they do, they're in for a fun time in divorce court. I feel bad for his gf. Stay away from this loser.
2007-01-26 18:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants his cake and eat it too, hes not married so he probably doesn't feel hes cheating on her. You need to move on and leave him alone, your the one who is going to get hurt. Sounds like hes just got you on the side for a booty-call...
get away from him
2007-02-02 21:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously justdoesnt want to be alone, so he is with her and behind her back he;ll fool around with you. If i were you, tell him off nd dont talk to him.
2007-02-03 16:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by apple513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is hella playing u leave him alone he just wants to have sex with you. if he really did love u he would stay true to u. go find a real man
2007-02-02 23:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by rubberducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋