ok i like this boy and i am sure he likes me to but i have my doughts, i send him couple of messages on myspace, being friendly, but he doesnt respond to me, and he does to all the other girls that he barely knows, i dont talk to him but i wanna go up and say something to him but i dont know what to say can anyone help me and give me something to say, plus we have a dance toommorow at school and im not sure if hes going so i need help fast. thanks
2007-01-26 08:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by Laters,baby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-26 08:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOES he know WHO you are? If he does and he's not responding to your messages then NO he doesn't like you. Simply ask him if he's going to the school dance via IM (it's easier sometimes to be more forward on an IM) If he will not answer the IM then find out through your friends (school). Make some calls Quick............ You should have been findin gout the scoop on him a long time ago! So get busy - burn up the phone..if by chance you have had a sexual encounter w/this boy - then give UP. He was only interested in one thing... best thing to do is find someone else to go with. That will show him that you don't care.
2007-01-26 16:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely open and patient. Maybe he's not responding because he likes you but he doesn't want you to know because he's not quite ready. Tell him that you are really interested in him and that you would like to go to the dance with him. If he thinks thats to fast ask if you can go as friends because i believe that all relationships should start with friendly contact. If he still says no then forget about him and have fun with your friends at the dance. After a while i bet he'll realize what he was missing out on and end up coming after you.
2007-01-26 16:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by cheerbabe2214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holler at him! don't be scared!! the worst he can do is say that he doesn't like you. maybe at the dance you can ask him to dance with you, (hopefully he dances) pull him to the side and try to have a convo with him, tell him that you are feeling him and were wondering if he would consider a movie sometime. Or you could even ask him as a friend ya know. Just be real casual ... still keep it between the two of you cuz you don't want all his dumb friends in your business ... maybe just mention it to him and see what he says "Hey, Joe! This new movie just came out and I really want to go check it out but I don't want to go alone. Think you might wanna join me on Saturday afternoon for a movie?" Just talk to him like he's a friend. And if worst comes to worst you could always just have a friend ask him or write him a "yes or no" note:) that's what we did back in my day ... lol ... but its a new day girl ... be strong!!! Good luck!!
2007-01-26 16:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're still really young, so let me give you a lesson in dating 101, if he's not responding to your messages and you know for a fact he's responding to everyone else's...he not into you. Move one and find someone who is. The dance would be a great place to start. I bet there's a guy who like's you that you've been ignoring. Give him a chance.
2007-01-26 16:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath at the dance and ask him to dance with you... that is the easiest thing i can think of... that is kind of an ice breaker... he might be feeling the same things that you are.. be the bigger person and make the first move...if you get turned down, do not take it too hard.. may be he was surprised that you made the first move.. but in the end.. boys like being asked just as much as we do! good luck
2007-01-26 16:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW u have lots of questions ... lol , well what i would do is ask him why he is not answering your emails [if u know him personality] and i would convent him saying like hi what up or something like that start off with small talk, dont rush it though
2007-01-26 16:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat to him and go to the dance and look hot but dont expect too much the first time around
2007-01-26 16:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the time of day.
You'll only be embarrassing yourself infront of him and other ppl.
He's a guy, and guys like to choose their mate.
Drop him like a headless doll.
Find another crush.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-26 16:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think this boy likes you? Sorry sweetie but if a boy is interested in you and you have made a move with no response I wouldn't think he likes you all that much. :(
2007-01-26 16:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by kristen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he is going to the dance or not? and just say would u like to go with me?
2007-01-26 16:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋