And why would he want a relationship when we're already having sex?
2007-01-26 08:19:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him
2007-01-26 08:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test To Give Your Boyfriend
2016-11-04 12:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? Not sure where you were trying to go with this question honey, but the best way is to be forward and ask him. You know if he cares about you ... pay attention! That's the main thing you need to do. And stop playing games!!! Men hate that!!! Also, sex does not constitute a relationship!! Just cuz you're having sex does not mean you're a couple!!! This is how men think!! Tap into their brain power sometime ... ask a male friend or colleague (that you feel comfortable talking to about these things of course) and see if perhaps they have some notions as to how your b/f is thinking. Sorry I couldn't be more help but I hope everythign works out for you!
2007-01-26 08:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to test a man to know if he really cares about you. If he has given you any reason for you to feel this way talk to him and go from there. Sex isn't everything it is part of it. I'm not going to lie but if you know that you can both go with out having sex for sometime and things don't change than he is yours and he cares. I feel most ( not all ) men are pretty forward about there feelings and if they want to be with you they will and if they don't they won't. But don't test him man hate it. Be honest and everything should work out for you!
2007-01-26 08:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to test your boyfriends feelings that's juvenile don't you think. You have to either believe he cares for you or don't believe him and move on. If you need to test his feelings then that only shows that you don't believe him and whats a relationship without trust. If you don't know what his feelings are then why are you sleeping with him? Maybe he wants a relationship because he really does like you and wants to be more than fuc* buddies.
2007-01-26 08:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Help Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who truly love each other do not test each other, they do not set traps for each other, they do not engage in trickery or "keeping score" or otherwise do things that attempt to prove or define the depth of their partner's love or commitment. That's because true love is founded on trust, truth and mutual respect and wanting what's best for your partner.
"Testing" your boyfriend is an ego thing, not a loving or caring thing. It's about you without caring for him. How would you feel if your boyfriend "tested" you for your depth of caring?
If this is the way you feel about your boyfriend, and what you want to do to him, I find it hard to believe that there's anything resembling love in your relationship with him.
2007-01-26 08:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any kind of test that you would give your boyfriend will lead to him getting angry and the potential end of your relationship. Why don't you just ask him how he feels and why he would want a relationship ?
2007-01-26 08:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by ibrokeit13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't test him u should already no if he cares if ur the first person he tells about something then ur his #1 and he probaly wants a relation shp becuz if ur just having sex then u could go to someone else but this way ur his and hes urs
2007-01-26 08:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by laser_179228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into his eyez an say i love you an kiss him on the lips but don't get to caried away an end up having sex if he really cares for you postpeom the sex you an him are having an see if he respects you decision love is..... kind love is....patience love is....not ment to be rushed if he reallycares for you cut off the things you an him do often an see if he will respect your decision
2007-01-26 08:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by dear tha unknown pt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to test him? You are either into each other or you arent, testing him will prove nothing except you are unsure about the relationship.
2007-01-26 08:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't smother him. Give him space and get involved in other activities. Guys love it when girls give them distance. To the guy, it makes a girl more interesting.
Better yet, refuse to have sex with him, just because you feel like it.
2007-01-26 08:29:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋