I just feel so lonely right now. I've been depressed ever since my girlfriend broke up with me (about a month ago). Things got better, and I started getting over it but tonight I just bursted into tears. I don't think its just about the break up but the fact im lonely and im going to be lonely for the rest of my life. I dont have anyone to talk to about it.
2007-01-26 08:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey there:)
you wont be lonely for the rest of your life. You will find that special someone. I know you will:)
Keep your head high:)
2007-01-26 08:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. My boyfriend & I just broke up a couple of days ago, & I feel lonely but I get out and go over to my friends house sometimes just so I'm not home alone thinking about it. Go to a bar by yourself and have a drink. You'll meet new people that way and you're not home alone all the time. I really doubt that I'll still be crying over him a month from now, I move on pretty quickly.
Call someone, you have to have some friends or siblings or family. Work on some relationships that you may have been neglecting. You'll probably be surprised, once you forget about her she'll come back.
2007-01-26 08:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in our lives we all feel lonely especially after a break up. Your pain is still sort of fresh being that your girlfriend broke up with you one month ago. Just know that you are not alone, there are alot of lonely people in the world. People who would love to have you as a friend. You say you have no one to talk to about this, well it shows an big effort on your part just by writing to Yahoo for answers. You have to be creative and think of ways that will creat oppotunities for you to meet people. Take a night class, meet people in churches in your community. Reach out to people, make an effort to make alot of new friends. Trust me, you will not be lonely for the rest of your life, I know it feels this way because of your pain. Talk to family about this, their love and support is what you need. Good luck to you!
2007-01-26 08:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rest of your life is a long time. Believe me please when I tell you that soon enough things will be back on track and you'll feel better about yourself and the world in general. In six months time you'll probably look back at this time in your life and laugh, and have something new to worry about. That's life!! The heart is a pretty tough organ and regardless of whether we realize it or not it will be broken many times throughout our lives. But on the other hand we will be responsible at times for breaking others hearts. And guess what they will heal every time. As with any death or loss we all need a time to grieve the loss of a relationship, but after we have given it the proper amount of time we just go out into the world and show it how confident we are. There you will find (or they'll find you) another partner to share your life with. Best of luck.
2007-01-26 08:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be sad. I know exactly how you feel. I got dumped by a guy 2 months ago and some days I feel like I'm getting over him and then BAM! I have a bad/lonely day. It happens, I guess. I understand the feeling of being alone forever. I hope not. Hang in there, I'm trying to, let's hope together that things will get better :)
2007-01-26 08:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mom Sparrow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense to any one but dating and relationships are like horses. If you get thrown off of one... Get back in the saddle and try again.
Feeling sorry for your self and mopping around does not have much appeal to the girls you will come in contact with.
So get your Chin up, Smile and know that this is just a speed bump in life's path. You may hit a few.. but each time you'll grow and learn.
2007-01-26 08:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you won't be alone forever, she just wasn't the right one for you. You will find her. I think you need to be ok with just being by yourself... or be ok with yourself. Do you have low self esteem? Maybe you need to work on being good with who you are without anyone else. It will be alright. Get involved in some new activities. You will meet new people there and a better understanding of yourself.
2007-01-26 08:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to be lonely the rest of your life...I suggest surrond yourself with friends. I am never lonely when I have my friends and family around!
2007-01-26 08:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by What Do I Know? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope this cheers you up:
A lonely frog calls a psychic hot line and asks what his future holds.
His personal psychic adviser tells him, "You are going to meet a young girl who will want to know everything about you."
The frog is excited about the news. "That's great! Will I meet her at a party?" he croaks.
"No," says the psychic. "In biology class."
2007-01-26 08:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by kami_morris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just one of the down times.
Things will come back around for you.
Don't give up there's someone out there for everyone.
Good Luck
2007-01-26 08:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋