i hate the town im in right now its so far away from my fiance' but im underage and can get reported as a runaway i have 9 months till im 18 should i wait it out or go for what i want?
2007-01-26 07:53:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait it will be better for both of you!
2007-01-26 07:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. And I mean really "wait." Statistics show that if you wait until you're older, marriages are more likely to last. Besides, the distance may be good for you if you think of it that way.
Think of it as a challenge to how much you really feel about each other. If you relationship survives the distance then it will only make you stronger. Think "character-building" here...
If you hate your town so much, you may just be looking to her as a way out.
Take the time out to figure out your true feelings and your whole situation. This might be a great stepping-stone into "maturity."
There are many things to think about when considering marriage: Have you had discussions about AND do you understand each others' views on finances, kids (how many, how to raise them), religion, housing, long-term goals? You don't necessarily have to AGREE with each other but just know and maybe understand where each other stands on each issue.
Good luck! Try not to stress too much and focus and enjoying your youth.
2007-01-26 16:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by MamaBearKnowzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out, trust me I couldn't wait to turn 18 and be on my own, but it's not as easy as you think and 17 years old is really young to figure things out on your own, sure you call this guy your fiancee, but come on now, you are 17, don;t do anything you will regret later, give yourself a life, enjoy your life, enjoy being young, Ugh I hate it when teens can't wait to grow up, then when they finally do, they don't know what to do, how to earn an income, how to be on your own, with a minimum wage income, you'll go crying back to mommy and daddy, the second your fiancee leaves you. If you really want to get away, talk with your parents and let them know how you are feeling and how frustrated you are, marry that person even, all you need is permission by a parent, and if your parent don't want to permit you, think about the chance there might be an actual reason for it... DO you really hate the town you're in, or is your fiancee pushing you, telling you he/she misses you... pushing you to do something I will guarantee you will regret. just wait the 9 months,.. who knows you might actually grow up from now to then, and it will also give you time to save up some money, for your future... Go to school make something of yourself...
2007-01-26 16:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately wait. Running away would only cause problems between you and your family. It may seem like right now, the only place that you belong is with your fiance, but believe me... family is forever. You dont want to hurt your family over a relationship. Right now you are still very young. You have so much time to do things in you life. I would not risk hurting those that care about you.
2007-01-26 15:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by candyxss07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait, because legally if you run away, and they find you, you will be watched very closely (ie: possible house arrest) and if your fiance is older she will be charges with either kidnapping, statuatory rape or otherwise, and many other things.
By the by, you are not even 18 yet, why are you enganged? Live Life, have fun, but it's a little early to be setting yourself up for that.
2007-01-26 16:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by arcadia_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big rush? A few months is nothing in a life time. Do you want to get dragged back home, and have a battle on your hands. I think not. Once you are legal age, then your life belongs to you. Till then, stay with in the law, and you can't go wrong.
2007-01-26 15:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait just a bit, you've got time. If you really hate the place, just keep thinking that its only 9 months till you can leave, though I think you should finish school no matter what and stay.
2007-01-26 15:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Why risk everything for 9 months?
2007-01-26 15:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes wait..... just wait!! trust me you're to young to runaway for a bf. wait until things are settled down, and just remember a lot of things with come your way that you dont like. you cant always runaway. good luck
2007-01-26 16:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. You need to be thinking of your career more then her.This is why.She won't be with u forever.But u will need a education so u can live comfortable. I know u don't see this but woman come and go.You'll kick yourself in your a s s if u leave and then u break up and u had given up everything for her. Think about that.
2007-01-26 16:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time young lady are you fully prepared to venture into the world alone. He says he loves you now, but love don't feed nobody, nor does it provide food, money, shelter and common sense. You're so young stay home and finish your education; attend college and get a good paying job, so that you could afford to be silly right now you have nothing. and it's a cold, cold world out there. don't let 'em fool ya!
2007-01-26 15:59:55 · answer #11 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋