my boyfriend for 2 months...asks like can i ______ you? isnt that weird? or is it his way of bein thoughtful? ahh help...ive talked to him b4 and he stopped and it was better ... ?
2007-01-26 07:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by rainice43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better than not asking. But if you don't feel comfortable with that he should respect your wishes and stop. If he doesn't, you've got a problem.
2007-01-26 08:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with him being sincere and respectful. In fact you should be glad. Some guys don't even ask and they start 'doing stuff' right after the first date. If you don't want him to do it anymore because it's annoying, or you just think he shouldn't be asking; tell him that you're comfortable with him and you wouldn't mind if he doesn't ask you as long as it doesn't get too far. Tell him that you would tell him to stop if you're not sure about what he's doing, so he doesn't have to ask.
You've only been going out for two months. If he's shy by nature, he's probably just being cautious because he doesn't want to overstep his boundaries, make you uncomfortable, or loose you. just reassure him that you trust him and that he doesn't have to ask you anymore.
2007-01-26 08:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would assume he's asking you because he doesn't feel comfortable enough just doing it with out your approval. I think the best way to stop this behavior would be by showing him that he doesn't have to ask. Show him all the things you want him to do (of course do this with out making it into what it is), for instance: if you like him to kiss your forehead then tell him "I love it when you kiss my forehead", or if you like him to hold your hand say to him "Hey Hun, I would love you to hold my hand". He'll eventually catch on and not need the need to ask anymore because he'll already know you like it.
2007-01-26 08:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by matt82682 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 02:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can he what u? kiss u, have sex with u, go eat dinner with u????? what?! I think he is just asking permission be for he does anything so he know for sure u are ok with everything. That is so HE knows u cant go and say he raped u or something. That would be really wacked out if u did that knowing he asked permission first and u said yes.
2007-01-26 07:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by goober 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does not find or is not sure how he can satisfy you may be it is better if he asks... to talk honest is not too bad even about the sex...
2007-01-26 07:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by vandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-26 07:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not werid it's disreseptful..Find someone who cares.He's a looser..Good luck
2007-01-26 07:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little bit too considerate
2007-01-26 08:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast he asked first.
2007-01-26 08:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by LOS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋