Okay, I am 35 and married. I go out with my girlfriends once a month and we go dancing. A couple weeks ago my cousin introduced me to an old colleque of hers and thats when it happended. Our eyes said everything. Now, his friend also gave me the look. You all know what I am talking about. Its that look of couriosity and lust at the same time. I danced with both of them(not slow) and had a great time. Now, my cousin on the other hand was hanging all over her colleque drunk and all I coulde do was apologize to him. Now, the question; is it wrong for me to be physically attracted to both guys, even though I am married. I have done no wrong, but the wild part of me is wanting more than just THE LOOK. What to I do?
2007-01-26 07:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by elainey66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't control your feelings, but you can control your behavior. If you act on these feelings, it will inevitably hurt everyone involved - you, your "fling," and your husband. A little bit of passion and excitement is just not worth the damage that will be done. Not anywhere near worth it.
2007-01-26 07:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Egghead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you,
What do you feel when your husband goes with his best friend to a bar and drink and dance with his best friend female collogue
Does he also looks ? Doesn’t he want more ? And if he did do more what will be your reaction are you going to be hurt.?
Answer these questions and I am sure you can will find the answer to your questions.
2007-01-26 15:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Steel Solie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should divorce your husband and seek the company of both of the men that you desire. Don't fight it - the feelings will only grow stonger. You should follow your lust and be true to yourself.
2007-01-26 15:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by fretzdawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does ur husband know about it? are u getting sexual pleasure from ur husband. i think u should control ur wild side. u can still meet them once a month and hangout... but do it in a limit...
2007-01-26 15:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guys, and be honest with them, that you're married! Tell them something about being "just firends." Guys hate that! Good luck!
2007-01-26 15:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with some fantasy, it is wrong to act on it,, and have a affair,
think of him while having sex with your husband,, might make things very exciting,,
2007-01-26 15:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? Think with your heart. What does your heart tell you is right?
2007-01-26 16:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fine as long as you don't act upon those feelings
2007-01-26 15:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it in your head you sl ut!
2007-01-26 15:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask ur HUSBAND bitc h
2007-01-26 15:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋