Should I tell Him?

Question

I have just recently got a boyfriend and he is a virgin but im not but i dont know if i should tell him i think i will if he asks but rite now it doesnt seem like hes gonna ask but im kind scared to tell him cuz i dont know what he is going to say to me...what should i do?

Answer 1

tell him after u guys do it.

Answer 2

wait till he asks. If he likes you, it shouldn't matter that you had sex before. It doesn't make you a bad or dirty person, so stop feeling ashamed. If you did it and you feel badly, just tell him that, yes I did have sex before, I regret it now and wish I would have waited until I got married, or until I was with someone I was in love with, or waited until I was older... whatever the situation is. People make mistakes, people learn from them, if he is a good guy, it won't matter, if it does matter and he breaks up with you, then he's just a dumbass anyway, so who cares. Honesty is the best policy, but sharing something that private should be reserved until the subject comes up or you know each other better.

Answer 3

I don't think that it really matters unless you lied to him or made him believe you were a virgin, and if you did than its better to come clean and tell him.

Answer 4

1st, how old r u? 2nd, start now, Never lie. You don't have to tell him, but if he asks, tell him. If you promise yourself that you'll only be honest with others, as well as yourself, you'll be trusted and secure and true. Amazing quality to possess!

Answer 5

wait till he askes, its not like your lying. When the time comes just tell him you never said anything before because he never asked.

Answer 6

just be honest. its better to let things out early in a relationship then it is later. when you love that person it kills you inside not telling him would probably upset him even more later in the relationship.

Answer 7

just wait