2007-01-26 06:54:51 · 24 answers · asked by kateee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, he won't leave me alone. should i just do it? would it be fun? has anyone here every had one?
2007-01-26 06:55:29 · update #1
that you guys so much for all the advice :) your so nice! it's just.. well he says that he doesn't care about his ex anymore, shes just the only girl he knows willing to do it.. but i don't know if he's lying or not...
2007-01-26 07:15:51 · update #2
i think your being stupid. don't do it obviously, unless you want to. If you feel pressured because he won't leave you alone then don't. I think he's being a pervert. my boyfriend wanted me to do one too, and i ended up dumping him!
2007-01-26 07:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had them! If it is something you have thought about doing before, now may be the time. Yes, for the most part are fun, but.......And this is a huge but! But, how or why is his ex in the mix? Obviously they are still close! Are you and her friends?
The easy part of a 3sum is doing it. The hard part is the after effects. I have seen it tear couples apart and others it made them stronger. You have to be willing to live with the possibility of it tearing your relationship apart. Make sure you are absolutely sure this is what you want to do and make sure you set any and all bounderies before and after you guys do it.
Bottom line, you hold all the high cards in making sure this will happen so if things don't go according to your plan, I say don't do it, otherwise enjoy!
2007-01-26 07:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even ask such a question. You might as well go ahead and do it. He has no respect for you and you don't seem to have any for yourself to let some idiot ask you to go do such a thing. If he truly loved you and respected you, he would have thought that you were enough for him and not have to involve someone else. It seems he is already sexually involved with his ex and they had a discussion about involving you because he figured you will do it because you love him and believe me, it will not stop there. He will keep wanting more and more. If you want to take a chance catching deceases or aids and risking your life for someone who is definitely not worth it, then go ahead. He is worthless and you should think a lot more of yourself. In this world, you always demand respect. Don't feed on disrespect because it can also turn out deadly.
2007-01-26 07:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...Unless u don't care if u stay with him then in that case go for it.If u say yes and do it he will first lose respect for u.That is if he has any now.Someone that keeps asking u to do something like that u need to question his love for u.If your not comfortable in doing it and u have told him that then why is he still asking?It doesn't sound like he cares about your feelings to me.Plus there is the moral issue too. Why aren't u enough for him? This isn't your problem it is his. Tell him u will do it if he will do it with your ex.I bet he'll be upset that u even suggested it. Something u should be.Upset that he even suggested it.Good luck
2007-01-26 07:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't probably see what the enormous undertaking is. you have a guy who loves you, is dedicated and you have a great intercourse existence, so what he likes to observe porn? a minimum of he's undemanding approximately it too! discover ways to stay with it, by way of making this variety of enormous deal out of it your making the region worse. enable it slide for a on an identical time as and probability is he will supply up observing it as plenty. Porn is largely a fable not reality and it sounds like he's conscious of that given how dedicated he's with you. do not ask or assume him to alter, it fairly is not the guy you fell in love with.
2016-12-12 20:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not be pushing you into something you don't want to do.
That said, if you are, in fact, interested in a threesome, something tells me that involving his ex gf is not such a good idea.
And, yes, ask him if he's are interested in a threesome with a guy, and tell him that you expect him to participate in it FULLY. If you're interested. See if that shuts him up.
2007-01-26 07:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about having a threesome? If it's not something you are into, tell him. If he persists, buy him a blow up doll and tell him to try having a threesome with her and his ex.
2007-01-26 08:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his dumb ***!!!!!
If he is asking you to have sex with his ex "with him" that means that he is probably still doing it "with out you" and (this isn't personal because I don't even know you) he probably isn't satisfied with "just you"... if you want to have a threesome at all it shouldn't be an ex of either one of you.
DUMP THE DUMMY!!!!!
2007-01-26 07:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by kssunflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to make HIM YOUR EX.
He clearly doesn't care whether or not you want to have a threesome. All he cares about is that he wants to have one. Which means he's treating you like a plaything, and not his girlfriend. Dump the loser.
2007-01-26 07:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by wineboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to give your boyfriend another gift, another ex.
Tell him he's a low life pervert and to go get his rocks off somewhere else.
2007-01-26 08:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋