i told this i guy i like him. i dont know how he feels after that day we havent talked. and before i told him he seemed to like me too. what does this mean? has he lost interest in me or he enevr like me at all?
2007-01-26 06:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by hello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, this is the type of situation I would hate to be in.
No one knows exactly for sure what his actions mean since everyone reacts to things differently. I suggest being the mature adult in this situation, be fearless and confront him in a very adult way. Act like it's nothing to you, but tell him everything honestly, even if you were hurt. Don't put any guilt trips on him, just be open.
Look for someone with substance, class, and maturity. If he's avoiding you and acting weird around you without sharing his feelings, then he's not at your age level yet. lol The right guy will come.
Fear is the mind killer, talk to him, be the adult. :-) Good luck.
2007-01-26 07:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by _Lara_Bell_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to be the pursuer. Be patient, & please don't pressure or pester him. He may not be used to attention, maybe there are still some shy guys out there. Anyways, just smile & greet him when you encounter him, to let him know that youre still interested, without being too forward. You don't want to come across as being desperate or easy, do you?
2007-01-26 07:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there is only one way to find out for sure. Ask the guy.
Here on Yahoo!Answers we are all guessing because we don't you or the young man in question.
Go talk to him. Good luck!
2007-01-26 07:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
now that he knows he has to plan out what to do next.. he probably never planned out what to say after "i like you".
he most likely is thinking " I want to do you" but that would be inappropriate, so he doesn't know what to say. He is in a developement stage.. learning to talk without saying a thing.
2007-01-26 07:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like he may be embarassed to accept that he likes you or you scared him away. You should have waited until the signals were there to be recepted. Talk to him, cant hurt what do you have to lose
2007-01-26 07:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by surfinnorcal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you caught him off guard. Give him some time to think. He might surprise you with good response. Good Luck
2007-01-26 07:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mami-Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue talking to him and play it off as if nothing happened. try a little flirting. if he likes you, it will show through and maybe even help break the ice. if not, it doesn't mean you can't be friends.
2007-01-26 07:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by momathome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally saying "I like you" shouldn`t scare someone off. However when someone says " they love me" to quickly that tends to scare most people off. Start slow and go from there.
2007-01-26 07:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to be rude but it happen to me once in high school i told this guy i like him and he never talked to me after words. when i do found out he didn't like me
2007-01-26 07:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be too shy to confront you with his feelings. If he is, he might not be ready for a relationship.
2007-01-26 07:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋