how can i feel more confident???

Question

my whole life ppl have been tellin me im so pretty && that their jealous but its really really hard 4 me 2 believe them.i cry alot bcuz i think im reallly ugly....i know i shouldnt but i do.i just want more confidence && i want 2 feel good about myself help me please...............
(i dont want 2 b overly confident i just dont want 2 have 2 cry all the time about the way i look)

Answer 1

From what you said it is impossible for other people to help you in obtaining confidence. Not one word will be completely realized.

You do not believe in what these other people are telling you. So really I hope this advise eases its way inside your mind....

Life isn't about appearance and what other people think about you. F*** other people, they don't matter. Now if this has to do with your own view, which I believe it does, why are you so hard on yourself? Perfectionistic behavior is the leading cause of suicide in the world. NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH.... That's a crock, you are wonderful and you know it, I know you do or you wouldn't be asking for help. You love yourself as a person, the only thing you are hooked on his physical appearances. You see models and stars and are envious. You get depressed because you want to be them... Adored by all, let me tell you... That's not possible.

Just FOCUS ON THE GOOD and GOOD will come of it.

Answer 2

You may be 'clinically depressed' and need to see a mental health professional who can help you decide if you need to be on a medication for that, and what that medication can be. I'm sorry that you 'cry' and think that you are ugly even when other people tell you that you are 'pretty', but this is one of the 'symptoms' of serious depression. If you want to 'gain confidence' then you probably really NEED HELP, so I'd start there ... GOOD LUCK, YOU ARE WORTH IT!

Answer 3

Walk tall and think to yourself that your better than everyone but be very humble with the close friends around you. leave the losers behind and let them know that your better than them. overly confident is not a bad thing because if you fail at something you will lose confidence

Answer 4

stop worrying what other people thing. its not the end of the world if someone calls your ugly. thats one person out of the billions out there.

If your heavy, loose the weight
if your ugly, plastic surgrey? ha jp, makeup works.


its not like you can change who you are, ya people do judge you on your apperence but if you have confidence that your pretty, or up to your own standards, everyone else will be like damn, i wish i was like that.

face it, everyones self concious, and you can let your confidence die, cause then you'll be just. BLAH

Answer 5

I think you should find confidence within yourself, there is really no way I could give you confidence. You have to find it yourself, you shouldn't put yourself down, because that won't help any. Also you should point out the positives in yourself, not the negatives.

Answer 6

Wow, this is a very personal problem, the confidence really needs 2 start within,.......Then try the next steps

Answer 7

jamie, hi im 17, and well i have that problem, and dont have to much self esteem about myself, and i do get very sad on the inside of my heart, but now im starting to think, hey this is all bullshit, put on some rock music and stand up tall kind of like saying **** everyone........honestly im not a bad person...but if you want to talk heres my e-mail, maybe if your stresssed we can smoke some cigarrettes together, but i got to see where you are from....write to me, its [e-mail] my names serina

Answer 8

It would help to get some counseling. Sounds like your self image is distorted. You're probably depressed too. Your doctor can refer you to someone who can help.

Answer 9

Marry a rich girl...Signed, K Fed

Answer 10

I took a confidence class once, and they give you litttle tips...........the best one I found for me, was to mirror someone you looked up to, wether it is an actress/ or a frined or acquantance.......it does work.