how to get a girl to notice me more?

Question

ok i like this girl and we are friends but i dont know if she likes me more i like her more but i need help

Answer 1

i really like what Becca said
i thought it would really help
and i would like to emphazie on the body language section
it is really vital to understand body language
to understand that when a girl starts to play with her hair or toss her head she is interested and waiting 4 u to make the 1st move.
look for self-touching, rolling hips and sideway glances.

u should also understand that showing power, wealth and statusis important.
try to be flattering so tell her that she's lost weight.
many women are attracted to a well-defined male upper body but dislike the 'muscle-man' body builder look, so try going to the gym but don't live there!

good luck

Answer 2

I don't know much about your situation or how old you are but there is a key thing that girls look for. CONFIDENCE.

It may sound cheesy I know. but I deos she know you exist? Are you friends? Are you even her type? There is alot to this question then just "does she like me and how do I get her to notice me".

Back to the confidence. The reason girls go for the bad guy is because he is the type of guy who has all the confidence in the world to flirt. A confident guy will walk straight up to a girl and say "Hey, one day I am going to rock your world." Coming from one of the more confident guy friends I have. lol

You don't have to say that exactly, lol, I don't know how old you are... lol. But girls like that. Girls want to feel wanted and when you show a girl you want her and don't beat around the bush (which just confuses us more and usually gets you stuck in the friend zone) we respond to that.

Here are a few sources tips I found by a guy named Jeff Cohen on About.com that I like.

#1 Play to your strengths.
Everyone has a special skill, whether it is humor, musical ability, drawing skills, or athletic prowess. Think about your number one strength and incorporate it into your dating arsenal. If you can play the piano like Billy Joel, it won't matter if you don't look like Brad Pitt.

#3 Get a Makeover.
We're not talking about radical, reconstructive plastic surgery here. But if you have one or two features (i.e., your hair style) that could be modernized, go for it. You'll feel more confident and it will show on the dating scene.

These were published on Ezinearticles.com

2. GET HELP
If you are not confidant, and need to get help, then utilize your friends. Choose one that you think is successful, and ask for some tips. Some people find the socialising scene easier than others'. If you are having real trouble try asking a girl who is a friend to go out on a practise date. Then ask her what went wrong.?

3. REMEMBER THAT SOCIAL AND DATING SKILLS ARE NOT LEARNT IN A CLASSROOM
Practise your skills regarding interaction with other people. Try not to brag all the time and listen to others. Try and bring out the best in others and make them warm to your personality.

6. UNDERSTAND THAT YOU MUST TAKE RISKS
Find the little things that you think are romantic, and act on them. This is fairly hard for some men, they are taught that real men don't express their feelings, you will appear weak if you do so. To be self-expressive you must be able to express your feelings. It may all go horribly wrong and you may hurt someone but the more you practise the easier it becomes.

9 BE AWARE OF THE GIRL'S BODY LANGUAGE
Body language is quite complex, but some things are easy. Practise on your friends. You should be able to recognize what sort of a general mood someone is in by the way that they hold themselves. Look at how relaxed people are looking when they laugh, they look as though they have not a care in the world. In contrast when people are holding themselves together, they look tense, and strung up. How many times have you seen a girl out and she is yawning, which is a sure sign she is bored, but on top of that she is giving men the brush off. Learn to read body language, and give yourself a fighting chance of success.

10. NEVER UNDER ESTIMATE THE POWER OF A SENSE OF HUMOR
Women are real suckers for men that make them laugh. Laughter reduces tension and makes them feel more relaxed. It takes some of the stress out of getting to know someone. Even if it means telling little stories against yourself. By this I do not mean put yourself down, but tell a story when something you did backfired on you in a funny way.


Well If you have read this far then I think you are ready to go get her. Good Luck and get back to me if it helps.

Answer 3

Stuff your pants with socks ----