My mom is always out, and messing around with different men. She divorced my dad, and since then she has been messing around. I don't find any condoms, and i'm worried. Every night I think she has aids or HIV. She got pregnent twice, and had that shot when they kill the baby. This is proof that she may not using protection. Why is she like this? She used to be a hard working, proud, buisness woman, now she's a ho.
2007-01-26 06:28:24 · 15 answers · asked by Hunnie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Regardless of how you feel about what your mom is doing, it sounds like she's hurting really, really badly. She doesn't need your judgement, she needs your love (I know, you're the kid!). Perhaps if you talk to her about your feelings and how you are finding it difficult to respect her and use her as a positive role model due to her behaviour, maybe that will wake her up. If she listens, maybe suggest some therapy...and offer to go too! Couldn't hurt.
2007-01-26 06:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"My mom is always out, and messing around with different men" wow, how terrible!
"She divorced my dad, and since then she has been messing around. "
maybe they're right. She hasn't gotten over it.
"I don't find any condoms, and i'm worried." what are you doing looking through your mom's things? that's not very nice. Maybe she has them kept well hidden.
"She got pregnent twice, and had that shot when they kill the baby."
Once again, how awful!
"Every night I think she has aids or HIV"
talk to her about it and tell her to get tested. It can be anonymous.
"Why is she like this? She used to be a hard working, proud, buisness woman, now she's a ho."
I have no idea. She need counseling to get over this ordeal of hers. If she is getting worse, take her to rehab because she's going through some self destructive behavior on dealing with her problems. If she does have aids ( i hope not), it might be too late! Ask for help from your relatives!
2007-01-26 08:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my parents divorced, they both went pimpin..
my dad went from woman to woman, and my mom went from man to man, without ever thinking what kind of affect it would have on the kids.
I think its because while they were married, their lives were stable and responsible. Now that they are free, they try to do whatever it takes to forget about the marriage. You should talk to her about this.
My parents have been divorced for 10 years, and I finally got the nerve to get angry at her for it. I think they are going through mid life crisis. I think she'll get over it. If not, then you're going to have to use this as a lesson to never make your life like this.
2007-01-26 06:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely because she's grown and she's spent a lot of time, being a good housewife and mother. Let her make her own decisions and if anything happens, she'll have to live with the consequences. Also, if she ever had a talk about safe sex with you, use that same conversation on her. Good Luck!
2007-01-26 06:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bless you sweetie. Your mom is an adult and her behavior is risky or seems to be. It isn't your responsibility to take care of her, and since she seems too ill to take care of you, then you must make positive choices for you. Study hard, stay in school, be as organized as you can in your life. Look for community projects that your schoo may be involved in and when you are old enough, get a part-time job.
Good Luck & Many Blessings to you and your Mom.
2007-01-26 06:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Hunter, your mom and I like to fool around alot! She might be a hoe but, she is MY hoe, and if my clients dont wanna wear a rubber, me and your mom get paid more. I dont know why u are complaining, your mom pays for your phone and keeps a roof over your head and food in your mouth. Back in the 70's when we were both young we did german porn, it involved some butt licking, thats how she got the oral herpes...with the train that the Dallas Cowboys gave her she developed a bad case of the crabs and the clap.....after that you were born......now think about it ...your real father is no longer in her life because she was cheating on him with 1 Canadian lady of asian decent and a man named Juan from mexico (illeagal immagrant). She has a burning vagina.....not burning for LOVE.....burning from a VD that they havent named yet........so dont blame her just embrace her VD!
2007-01-26 06:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it bothers you, you should talk to her about it. You might have some impact on the way she is behaving. Sometimes adults do things like this for attention. If you tell her it is hurting you she might think twice before jumping in the sack with some dude!
2007-01-26 06:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your Mom is going through a hard time. It's good that you can see that she is not conduting herself in the right way.
Try talking to her and telling her that you're scared of losing her... maybe she jsut needs to hear it from someone?
2007-01-26 06:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She might be having a mid life crisis ,Try to talk to her about your concerns with her health and well being , chances are she may blow you off but at least you tried and got it off your chest
2007-01-26 06:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mom is just really lonely and does not want to admit it. maybe she wants to make it look like shes moved on from her divorce whenever she hasnt. just a theory
2007-01-26 06:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by n&z-mama 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋