i just found out that my best friend is 2 months pregnant. and me and my fiancee have been trying for 7 months and nothing. and im happy for her and everything, but im also jealous.
no mean answers please.
2007-01-26 06:26:56 · 3 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are behaving normal. I went to several baby showers in the past few months and I have 1 more to go to next week. Let me tell you, one part of me is happy for them and another part is jealous as hell. When my brother in law had his son, my husband was carrying him and said "when I have our son this is how I am going to be". I felt like crying seeing my husband holding the newborn and smiling at him like that. I was like I need to hurry up and conceive.
2007-01-26 07:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by sheila, TTC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way when someone gets something that you want. You should be happy for her and supportive, especially if she wants it as bad as you. If you guys have been trying for 7 months now, maybe you should talk to a doctor if you haven't already. If the doc doesn't find anything wrong and you are healthy enough to have a baby, I'm sure you will when the time is right. The fun part of it is when you don't think or worry over it, and then it happens. It makes you ten times more excited.
2007-01-26 14:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by prima ballerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called life!!! I appreciate u are upset but u have to get over it. this happened with myself and a friend. I am pregnant and she was so off with me because her new partner can't have kids and she desperately wants another!! Although I understood she is upset, i was furious the way she treated me, it was not my fault she couldn't have anymore and being a good friend, i expected her not to be so self centred and at least be pleased for me. We haven't spoken since I found out i was pregnant, she doesn't bother and in return I can't be bothered. she hurt my feelings.... so think on and just be happy for her
2007-01-26 17:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋