and if so, why or why not?
2007-01-26 06:25:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would I "accept" them back? It depends on the situation, I think if there was genuine remorse and I was in love with the person I might. But there would have to be some counseling involved. But to me cheating doesn't exist unless we are talking about a married couple...
2007-01-26 06:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by JT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, a lot of people are going to say no to this question but the truth is that there are a number of people out there that have been in this situation where they got cheated on and they have a hard time letting go. I think the best thing would be to move on but unfortunately people get involved with the wrong partners and they end up dealing. Which, is really sad because the only reason a person would cheat is out of spite or lack of love shown from the other individual. I think that there is no point in being in a relation ship period if your going to cheat.
2007-01-26 14:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Starlesha23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how far in the past. If it was a guy I dated in high school and now we are both grown, then maybe. People change and people grow up. Cheating on girls is something a lot of guys go thru when they are young but then as they get older realize that its not right and wouldn't do it again. Then there are guys who are still in that phase and will never grow out of it. Just take the time to get to know the person again and evaluate if they would do it again.
2007-01-26 14:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never. They don't respect you if they cheat on you. That's one of the worst things you can do to someone...selfish, heartless and someone who wants the best of both worlds. Tough!! Be single if you want to sleep with several people!! You wouldn't be able to trust them again, nothing would be the same!
2007-01-26 14:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this totally depends ... I believe once a person cheats, they are capable of doing it again, so it's more about if you trust him/her not to cheat again. I think once someone cheats, though, a level of trust is stripped, and it's hard to regain that.
2007-01-26 14:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ill tell u from experience...i tried acceptin my ex back after something like this happened and it never went back to normal. i couldnt trust her anymore, it just creates too much tension in the relationship. after it ended we tried being frendz but that didnt work out either cuz she just crazy. so by my experience, i would personally not take back any girl that cheated on me.
2007-01-26 14:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Relationships are built on trust (good ones anyway) Once the trust is gone, there is no foundation to build on.
I never look back!!
2007-01-26 14:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because he might have realized what a big mistake he made. i might realize that he loves you and he should have never cheated. and he might want another chance.. its your opinion whether you want him back or not. but if you still think about him all the time i would give him a seconde chance..
2007-01-26 14:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2007-01-26 14:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
If she/he loves you truely never cheat on you
if cheated it means she/he has interest for the others more than you
don't forgive not at all
2007-01-26 14:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mohsen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋