i need guys to help me,i want this guy to notice me but i don't now how.Any advice.
2007-01-26 06:20:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can be the girl that does the crazy thing, like never washes her hair, or always eats out of a tin can at lunch... unless you wanted the good kind of attention, which is usually a lot harder to get.
2007-01-26 06:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so you want this guy to notice you , what you need to do is be the center of attention when he is around. If your in a school or out with friends you need to take the stand so to speak. Say your in the school cafateria and he is also, when your talking to your friends you can stand up when they are sitting down. and be very animated so as to bring attention your way. If that doesn't work than try being around him and smile when you see him.
Look your best at all times and try to shine in a crowd and above all be confident. Guys love confident chicks, if you know you look good then they actually believe it! Also try getting friendly with his friends so they can go back to him and talk about about how great you are. Get out there, be confident, have fun!
2007-01-26 14:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry 4 all the sarcastic remarks u got
i always tell people to try this because body language is soo important
i know i repeat but this is a winner!
try giving him eye contact as in look across to him, wait until he notices u , hold the gaze 5 secs and turn away
he should keep watching to see if you do it again
try delivering one or more fleeting smiles.
just a quick half smile.
you can also sit up straight and cross your legs and ankles.
if standing tilt ur hip and tilt ur head sidways towards a shoulder
play with ur hair 4 about 6 seconds.
you can try lipgloss however if the school or ur parents don't allow it
try licking ur lips!
there r also other gestures to show u r interested....
the head toss and hair flick
wet lips and pouting, mouth slightly opened
Self-touching (slowly stroke, ur neck, for example)
fondling a cylindrical object
exposing the wrist
sideways glance over raised shoulder (with partially drooped eyelids, hold his gaze just long enough 4 him to notice, then quickly look away)
Rolling hips and hands on hip gesture
the shoe fondle (dangling the shoe on the end of the foot)
the knee point (one leg is tucked under the other and points to the crush)
the leg twine
why not try to know what he is in for and learn abit about it (football, for example)
this way you can lead a conversation if u get the golden chance!
Good luck
2007-01-27 15:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by buzylizzie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get a guy to notice you is not noticing him.. try and make it like you dont like him and give off a mature intelegent (but not nerdy bc therre is a huge difference) look. flirt with other guys but dont do anything that would make hinm think your a slut, you want him to notice you in a good way not in a trashy way.. make yourself look busy and unavailable but not too unavailabe.. really it may seem hard but its not and it can be funn alsoo maybe even in a game kind of way.. ooh also something very important dont call and when he calls tell him ull call him back that ur in the middle of something.. kk goodluck!
2007-01-26 14:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to talk to him and see how things go. Talking is the best way of figuring things out. Also, always be yourself because if you act one way with certain people and another way with others then it gets complicated. Don't do anything to scare him. Good Luck
2007-01-26 16:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sveta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just behave yourself and ignore him on every occassion when you face him. After some time, he'll notice you automatically. By that time you can express your love for him, in such a way telling him why you avoided him all the time in beautiful words! :)
2007-01-26 14:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should find out what he is interested in and try to make conversation with him about whatever it is. Then you establish that you have noticed him and hopefully he will notice you and try to talk to you about something that you like.
2007-01-26 14:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, if you have to work to get a guy to notice you then he is not worth it at all. dont degrade yourself like that. find a guy that will notice you without you even doing anything, thats the kinda guy u want
2007-01-26 14:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by JENN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu joke around with him and try to flirt. I now this becausew I'm a guy. It's hard to walk up to someone you like, especially for guys.
2007-01-26 14:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by DK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
park your car next to his, wear a short skirt and no panties, when he comes back to his car act like your car is broken. ask him for a ride home
once your in his car start running your hand up and down the inside of his thigh and hike up your skirt with your other hand and see what pops up.
2007-01-26 14:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋