The guy I am speaking of is the Pastors son and I have known him up until I became an Atheists two years ago. He has just started dating. I think he was still a virgin?
BB, Boop Oop A Doop?
2007-01-26 06:18:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Of course. Its OK even if you don't respect or like him.
2007-01-26 06:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
So that means you already done it? And what does this all have to do with him being Pastors son. It sounds kind of freaky even though actually question you had in a subject area sounded very decent and very actual nowadays.
To answer your first line very first question i say yes it is possible. Even though they say guys wont get to know you on personal level as who you are just yet if you have sex with him too soon. He will like you mainly for sex. Now that is trully pathetic. I proved myself and a lot of people wrong when i got engaged to my fiance who i met and had the most great time all night long hanging out in a city and then we decided to get a room so we dont have to take a train to go home so we just crashed and had the most amazing first time sex at like 6 am because we got there at like 3 am.....all day hang out, 3 hr nap in each other hands and great sex to follow.....i swear it felt like we knew each other for a longer then 1 beautiful day. Well of course we talked over the phone for ever before the date idea was brought up but whatever the case would be,....i dont even regret.....i am loving it and we are madly inlove now....So yes to your question......it is ok on a first date if you have amaging time, make each other happy, you respect each other and plannin on doing it while you are together and of course maturity have to be there and it goes for both parties. Good luck!
2007-01-26 06:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your world view. If you see sex as the most intimate thing you can do with your covenant partner because the two of you become united, I'd say absolutely not. If you don't respect the covenant of marriage and have no fear of God then you should do what feels right.(Keep in mind this earth may be the only heaven you ever see.)
2007-01-26 06:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hawke 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay? I'd think it'd be great!
LOL at "If you want him to respect you, you'll make him wait". You know, there's a reason why those magazines that say that kind of thing are on the same racks with the ones that say that Elvis was sighted in Denver and aliens have replaced President Bush.
2007-01-26 06:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are more than one reason to have sex . . if it's the long lasting relationship lets get hitched kind then not on the first date . . but if it's the I'm so "h" I could "f" an animal kind that's fine on the first meeting as long as both participants know that's the deal . .
2007-01-26 06:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rainy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not on the first date.
2007-01-26 06:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by The Pope 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Since you came straight from the nightclub to the Religion and Sprituality Sunday school class, I will break it down for you, Betty, Ms. Boop if you're nasty.
Okay, Ms. Boop. No. It is not okay. The end. Boop Oop Edoo
2007-01-26 06:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
It will be a Christian kindness to teach him the facts of life. Don't forget to use protection. Wrap that rascal. Better yet use the swallow system of birth control. Cheers.
2007-01-26 06:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for the forgiveness of all the fornucaters on this aswer. It is never ok to have those kinds of relations before marriage. My husband, pastor of the Kingdom Hall Assembly, never once asked me to do that until after we were married back when i was 15. Now we are blessed with 6 beautiful gifts from the Lord, are kids.
2007-01-26 06:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
just make sure he doesn't have any STDs. No matter how nice a guy he is and no matter how much you think he's a virgin, get him tested because sex is for a moment, STDs can be for life.
2007-01-26 06:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by teh @nn0y3d kItteh (^_^) 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside of marriage is wrong. But of course, thats a very unpopular opinion these days.
2007-01-26 06:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by mariedockins 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋