The guy I am speaking of is the Pastors son and I have known him up until I became an Atheists two years ago. He has just started dating. I think he was still a virgin?
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2007-01-26 06:16:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good for you...keep having fun
2007-01-26 06:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. First date sex is Always a bad idea, if you really think that this guy could be "The one." If you just want to be his first, and don't care about the future, go for it. I'm not one to say that sex for the fun of it is wrong (so long as you use due care), but first date sex usually just leads to the idea that you do this with All the guys, and that's not an impression you want to make with someone you really like.
2007-01-26 14:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think sex is ever ok on the first date, this coming from a guy. It makes you seem really easy and you don't want a bad rep. If yall just started dating then give it a while and see if you really like him and see if you think if it'll last, sex is something that you should do with someone that you love, not just anyone you date.
2007-01-26 14:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think having sex on a first date isn't a good idea because you're giving yourself a chance to get to know that person. If I were you, I would wait until the time is right to have sex, but most importantly, talk about it first and keep your options open!
2007-01-26 14:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he's your pastors son have a little compassion here. As far as hot pants go tell him to take a cold shower n u should definitely wait... but he's the pastors son though?
2007-01-26 14:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great book by Edwin Louis Cole that will answer this for you. It is called Communication, Sex and Money. It addresses this very subject. I believe it will really help you out. Don't be the cause of this young man's down fall for sheer selfishness.
2007-01-26 14:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by topsecretwrappers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if he's the pastor's son (I assume Christian) he would probably want to wait until marriage. However it really depends on what you want. Will you get some kind of pleasure and sense of empowerment by "deflowering" him and then date someone else? If yes, then go for it. But if you want to develop a relationship then you should wait.
2007-01-26 14:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like and respect yourslef, then no sex is not an option on the first date. that changes the way yall will look at eachother. sex isnt something you just do just because. its something you do after you have gained a respect and strong bond btwn eachother. its suppose to be something special to share amongst oneanother. dont be stupid
2007-01-26 14:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by JENN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it takes time before you should sleep with someone.When you do decide,,make sure that its just not a one night fling.Dont give yourself away so freely.Our bodies are a gift to men.Make him wait or you should wait for at least a month of real dating.It will be all well worth it...good luck
2007-01-26 14:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by shyone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off why do aheists go to church? who do they have to pray to? as far as sex on a first date, that would make you a whore and him horny because he's never gotten it b4.
But if your going to do the deed maybe you should go down on him first because he isn't going to last that long so why waste your time spreading your legs for 15 seconds. Just open your mouth and take his first shot down the throat less work for you
2007-01-26 14:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Depends on what you want out of the relationship. Sex too soon confuses things.
2007-01-26 14:26:02 · answer #11 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋