When your relationship is doubtful with your gf, do you often start looking towards a "second option" just incase it doesnt work out? I've heard many guys do this, and Im wondering if this is all guys or just the ones Ive heard do it.
2007-01-26 06:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I certainly don't, if the relationship is doubtful then they guy should be concentrating on the relationship, not his next target. Unfortunatly, there are guys out there who are always looking for the next "target".
2007-01-26 06:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in a relationship and you don't have feelings toward the girl then get out of the relationship. When i'm in relationships like that then I am already looking into other girls that I like. If you don't think it'll last then end it now.
2007-01-26 14:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it seems more prevalent with women than men.
When a guy says he wants to be alone for a while that is usually exactly what it means.
When a woman says it it means she wants to be alone with someone else for a while.
It seems it is women that tend to like the 'second option' more.
That way she has something secured for when she dumps him.
No I know men always look but it's just looking.
I myself usually don't have the energy nor desire to keep up with one woman much less more.
2007-01-26 14:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely
2007-01-26 14:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Millo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy, how long you have been with him and how much did he love or loved you
when a guy gets very attached to someone and love them deeply it is harder on them than on the girl
it also depends who has th doubts about the relation ship
I know that when I was in this situation I lived in denial and did not look for other girl, I was hoping it would blow over or we could work it out....but i guess once a girls makes up her mind its already too late
2007-01-26 14:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if I didn't cause anything wrong. If I did then yes. It really depends on why the relationship is doubtful anyway.
2007-01-26 14:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually happens that way. Most guys usually already have or are getting another girl while in a relationship that isn't working out.
2007-01-26 14:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all.... Not all guys are the same and they deffinitly dont think a like. So no a lot of guys dont look for second options. I deffinitly dont.
2007-01-26 14:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Personally, I break it off, THEN start looking around.
2007-01-26 14:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, a lot of guys do start looking for other options.
2007-01-26 14:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋