story: i ask guy to hang, he says i practically have a girl friend but yea call me sometime, i say okay i understand its cool (i thought it was a rejection/feeling bad for me)..he ignored me for two weeks straight..but now when i believe i am over him, he keeps looking at me in the halls, i keep seeing him more and more like the runins increase everyday, he notices when i smile or move around the room, he is starting to talk more (not to me, but just in general), and even if i dont look at him, he will be watching me...
i deleted his number a while back, but he hasnt called me or nothing so thats good.
what do you think he is feeling right now?? i dont understand
2007-01-26 06:00:18 · 18 answers · asked by kat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys can be so strange...and relationships are strange so this whole situation must be difficult to understand alltogether. People generally want what they cannot have, so i'm sure that you interest him strictly because you are un-obtainable (because he is in a relationship)...secondly, thats the rule...once you get over someone they always like you! its weird, but it happens...people don't want a person who is desperate to be with them, they want someone who will play hard to get...and since you were getting over him and didn't care about him anymore, he saw that and became interested. it sounds like he is definetly interested in you....although it feels good to be liked....remember that he is with someone and unless you want to be the other woman...be friends until you can be more than friends.
2007-01-26 06:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by lola 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say f*** him. Something must be up why he's been doing that. Maybe he's thinking about cheating on his girlfriend and he's just trying to run a game on both of you. Guys are like that. And this guy sounds just like it. Or maybe he broke up with his girlfriend somehow, and now he thinks he could use you for a booty call. Besides you shouldn't have to look for a man, because all the great ones will find you. That's whe you know he's worth checking out.
2007-01-26 06:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Just advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know guys are very unpredictable, he could be thinking that he's got a chance with you by just telling you a story that he and his girl are not working out, or may be he really sees something he likes in you, but i think whatever comes out of it that you should be careful about falling too fast for this guy cause you dont know if he is real or just playing you. Make sure that you are not just the other girl, but he might just be interested in you which could mean that the relationship he is in doesnt mean a lot, good luck
2007-01-26 06:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two answers for you...first he might have broken up with his other "girlfriend". Second, I've noticed in my relationships that men are intrigued by women who don't "need" them. You have shown him interest, and now you've drawn back. This is now a chase for him, and men are interested in the chase. He hasn't called you because he's scared of you rejecting him.
2007-01-26 06:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by beachbum_susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're young go to school and learn enough with the boys, at that age boys want sex sex sex sex sex sex and more SEX unless you are a wh*re or something and give in to what this dude wants then be all means go for him, but obviously he don't like you so leave him alone and concetrate on studying don't do the same mistake I went through in High School all Iw anted was a boyfriend and now I have one you ain't missing nuttin...Stay a virgin for as long as u can I stayed one till I was 18 and I am still with the guy as well.....So please just do your studies and lay off the stupid idiotic men okay?
2007-01-26 06:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jacquelyn R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, chicks are complicated creatures...I would guess that the dude likes the idea of you liking him. He might like you too. Who knows. If he has a girlfriend though, and wants to stay committed your kind of left in the cold unfortunately. Its ok, there a lot of other douche bags left in the world for you to find.
2007-01-26 06:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you liking him. It doesn't sound like he is putting the effort in to try to date you. He might just be coming around you now because he saw that you were losing interest in him, so he needs to get you going on him again. If he wanted to date, it seems like he'd make an effort. Also, what about his girlfriend? It just sounds like games, but good luck!
2007-01-26 06:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do The Same To Him
2007-01-26 06:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it may mean he knows something about you that is a lil bit funni or maybe there is nothing funni and he realli likes you. Think about it.
2007-01-26 06:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is worrking you. guys feign disinterest, because they think it will draw a girl to him. sometimes it works. he also might just not be interested. could go either way here.
2007-01-26 06:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by CNuxoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋