i've been with my now fiance for 1year and a half. He buys me everything I want, do everything for me but there is one problem. whenever we chill he wants to have sex and I can't remember one day he didn't ask me to have sex with him.Whenever I say no he gets mad telling me that he's not doing it with anybody else why can't I give it to him.He takes good care of me I don't know what to think
2007-01-26 05:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by sexy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just a guy, and he's just horny. And if you're pretty attractive, then, well, no one can blame him.
Sit him down and tell him what you wrote here. Tell him he needs to "relieve" himself once in a while, so you both can chill comfortably sometimes.
2007-01-26 06:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by redjetta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well at first I thought you was one of my women until you said 1 year and a half.
I do the same to her and I get pissed off also. I usually get over it but I am sick of the 1 or 2 times a week that we do it so I think it is not going to work between us because I am too "active". I love her to death and I wait on her but it is becoming hard.
I have cheated on her twice but my nuts were about to bust and I needed some nookie. I still don't get satisfaction unless I am with her but I have to cheat for medical reasons.
Talk to him and work it out. Some guys are just horny like me and need to find women that are the same. It is a lot better than somebody that is limp and can't give you any.
I would also say that after a year and a half and he is still trying to jump in your panties every time he sees you is a good thing. He obviously is VERY attracted to you.
Just a thought
RJ
2007-01-26 14:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people have different sex drives and that's a big issue when it's two people trying to have a commited relationship together and the sex drives are different. It's not easy to change. Tell him he's wearing it out and not leaving you enough time in between to catch your breath and decide you want it yourself. This isn't all about him. However, if you can't compromise on this subject so that you are both mutually content, meaning you sacrifice some and he sacrifice some, it will probably at some point end between you. Good luck!
2007-01-26 14:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex. Nothing wrong with that. people have different sex drives. I mean how often do you hang out? If the answer is more than once a day then you may have a point, but anything less than once a day and you are being unreasonable. Give it up already...
2007-01-26 14:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you just have a guy with an amazing sex drive....and I would think that is great. Do you "feel" as if he loves you? A year and a half is a long time for someone to stay with you just for the sex. I am guessing that there must be more to his feelings than that.
2007-01-26 14:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly no. Using you would imply that you are not getting anything in return. You are in a committed relationship with a man that intends to MARRY you. I assume if he wants to marry you that he loves you. So why is he using you if he wants to physically express his love for you?
Men are physical and you should be happy that he wants to be intimate with you, because when he stops asking it means he's lost interest or he has found someone else who is willing.
Do you not enjoy being with him in that way? If so you need to re-thinking getting married, you might be in for some trouble down the road...
2007-01-26 14:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by JT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES he loves you and men like myself only show how they care thru gifts and sex and that is it! I do the same thing now with my fiance and she hates but not enough to stop me from begging for it, cause like u.. she loves the attention of being wanted!
2007-01-26 14:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful maybe one days he will sell your sex too.To u know his back ground.Check it out girl.lf this world as simple as this cat n dog also can have sex u know?So many girl get trap b'cos they think his boyfriends always take good care of her.When time come see what he do to u.Take girl.Bye now.Hope this can help u.
2007-01-26 19:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a definite yes! By the way could u help me out with my question.It deals with something like that. Its under the singles & dating section.
2007-01-26 14:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is using you for sex cause you are giving it to him. If you didn't want to have sex you should have started the relationship out like that...
2007-01-26 14:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋