2007-01-26 05:51:22 · 28 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. The memories will be with you always.
2007-01-26 06:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by blueridgemotors 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to accept the fact that the relationship has run it's course. That it is over.
You need to give yourself permission to be sad. It's OK to be sad sometimes. But do not dwell on your sadness. Find healthy activities to fill your mind and extra time. Spending time with friends and family members can be a great source of comfort and help to lessen your feeling of loneliness.
Give yourself time to heal. Review the things that you have learned from the relationship. Note the things to avoid in the next.
I know that words here aren't the quick fix that you maybe looking for and they can't really your broken heart, just know that we have all been there at some point in life and we all survived. You'll make it. You'll heal. You will love again.
My good wishes to you
2007-01-26 14:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After 12 months I lost the love of my life also.
IT will take time take each day one at a time. Work on finding out about you learn to grow and make yourself a better person. Do not take on all the vises the world will throw at you. Become a whole and complete person and dont give up hope for a better tommorrow. There is the perfect person out there for you they are meant for you and you meant for them. If this one was not the one it is for the best, Because there is better coming.
Good luck
2007-01-26 14:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Focus on your own interests. Get involved in them. Take care of yourself- experiment with make-up and a new hairstyle (or color.) Talk more to other friends. Cry if you need to. And just keep busy doing things that you feel good about. Like staying in bed late. Make yourself a nice healthy breakfast and serve it to yourself in bed. Go to clubs or concerts, whatever, where you'll have a chance to meet new guys. This is a new opportunity for you!
2007-01-26 14:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get into another relationship. Then usualy the only and best solution to getting over someone is time. But you can do other things to help as well, don't just sit at your house and moan about it, go out and see the world or do something. Just refresh yourself, it's one of the best things you can do. As well with that, hang out with friends, talk, do anything that gets the person off your mind.
2007-01-26 14:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by dragonsaretheloveofmylife 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is gonna tell you that it takes TIME, and it does! I'm not gonna lie to ya! However, you will feel better faster if you put yourself out there again! Have a date or two... Find a crush!!! have a fling! There fun, and distracting... after a while, it will not hurt so bad!!!! I know it's hard and painful, but why not make the most out of it! You can always cry it out later... life's too short to pine over someone that's not pining over you... There are plenty of heartbroken people that feel the same way. Almost everybody goes through it...
2007-01-26 14:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by crystalynwilliams 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It might sound cheesy, but you know what really helped me with my very broken heart is the book "He's Just Not that Into You." It really freed me, and helped me move on in a dignified way. I just stopped hanging onto hope that things could still work out with this guy, and instead of feel depressed, I felt liberated. If the relationship is meant to work out, it will in it's own good time, so just move on for now.
I know it's easier said than done. Try the book. It couldn't hurt.
2007-01-26 13:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Karibuboo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They say it takes twice as long then you were with someone to get over them. It's really hard if you still love them. I am sorry you have to go through this. All I can say is find something to keep you busy. You had things you enjoyed doing before them, try to get back into your old routine.
2007-01-26 13:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by beachbum_susie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TIME. TIME. TIME. I know you don't want to hear it. Take it from one who's been there and back a few times, Time heals all wounds. What you can do, though, is find activities that will keep you busy and distract you from moping. You will find that your thoughts and emotions are your worst enemies at this moment. These are what you need to take care of.
Good luck. Believe it or not, it gets better as each day unfolds.
2007-01-26 14:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Allow yourself to be able to mourn for a little while, but keep yourself busy and occupy your mind and time. Go out and have fun, possibly date several but don't let anyone get attached to you until you are ready. It just takes time....It does get better. One day you will wake up and it will feel as if it has been a lifetime ago that you even loved the person.
2007-01-26 14:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
actually it does not happen very fast what you need to do is get back to the person you once where also you can go somewhere away from home which will get your mind off the situation. DO NT try to talk with anyone as yet give yourself time to heal. just have faith love will find you .
2007-01-26 14:08:07 · answer #11 · answered by DJ REAPER 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋