ok, so last night my bf and i went by wal mart to get lighbulbs for a friend while we were there he asked if i needed any tampons cuz my period should be coming up. i said sure hopefully. he's like yea, why hopefully? i told him that this time last month my period was ending. so i'm basically a week late but that's it. i don't think i'm pregnant the only symptoms i have are moodiness and late period and i didn't mean to say it was late cuz i didn't want to worry him but he really had no reaction whatsoever... is that good or bad?
2007-01-26 05:47:36 · 25 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said nothing just did an "hmm" sound. then we went back to normal conversation
2007-01-26 05:55:06 · update #1
not that i think it matters but he's 23. and i'm starting to think it was a non worrying reaction because i really don't worry about anything. and i think i've rubbed off on him.
2007-01-26 05:57:35 · update #2
i'll be 21 in may and he'll be 24 in august
2007-01-26 06:04:02 · update #3
Hun, he sounds like he is completly for you and wants to be with you, so his non-chalent action simply meant, "hey, whatever happens, happens" I'm in it for the long haul with you. Take it as a good reaction.!
2007-01-26 06:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by FIT-GAL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't read anything into his reaction. Guys definately react different than girls. Girls tend to worry and expect the worst while guys tend to take things as they come. Take an at home pregnancy test...if it says your pregnant...make an appointment with a doctor to have another one done (sometimes the at home ones aren't always accurate)...if the doctor says your pregnant then tell your boyfriend. Your symptoms could simply be because your period is on it's way and it's late due to something as simple as the fact that you've been under a lot of stress or you could be pregnant that's why I say to take a test. (The reason a test done by the doctor is different from the at home ones is because they do a blood test which is more accurate.) Good Luck.
2007-01-26 13:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by little_chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not necessarily bad. He probably doesn't want you to be pregnant, or he would obviously be more excited about it. you obviously wanted him to know because you are obviously worried, or you wouldn't have said "hopefully." He is only holding off on showing any emotions because, for one thing, you probably surprised him and he didn't want it to show while visiting with friends, and because he doesn't want to feel one way or another until he knows for sure. You and he should be talking about protection at this point. If you're not usually late and you're not usually moody, there is reason to be concerned. Get a pregnancy test TODAY and find out for sure so you both know can figure out what to do from this point on. If there is ANY concern that you are pregnant, drinking or doing any drugs would be totally uncool and selfish.
2007-01-26 13:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its a 50-50. every guy deals with that in a different way. now if you are late, and i was with you, then a test would have been bought JUST to make sure. its a sense of ease all around. my g/f and i went 3 weeks with her being late, and every 5 days we got a test - always a (-) but still........so who knows, and honestly, if you are thinking about this, then ask him if he wants to get a test. everyone will be better off knowing for sure what the answer is. also, a sense of him being responsible is also GREAT.
2007-01-26 14:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is cool with the situation. As a guy, I understand that a week late is nothing. 2 weeks and then I worry. I worry a lot.
He has no concern because you didn't sound like you were really concerned. If you say that you're worried that you might be pregnant, say so. Then you can seriously gage his reaction and thoughts.
2007-01-26 13:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When my girlfriend told me she was late, I didn't have much of a reaction either. It'll be on his mind and he'll be worried about it until your period starts or you find out your pregnant. I thought about it every day and it was always on my mind until she came to me and told me she was pregnant. Just reasure him that everything will be alright.
2007-01-26 13:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he must be telling himself it is ok, and calming himself down. I mean, really! Who wants to freak out in the middle of a Wal-Mart?
2007-01-26 13:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not think it is really bad but avoidance or ignoring the possibility of you being pregnant is not "good". If you and he were not planing a child then it was most likely a shock to him. I do not think you can draw any conclusion from his non reaction.
2007-01-26 13:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I just guessing, if you appeared to be calm about it. If you were stressed out you would get a different reaction. He probably feels that you have things under control.
2007-01-26 13:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any GUY who asks "do you need any tampons" OR knows when you "period" is - is suspect. He may be a girl. If so, then you are not pregnant.
2007-01-26 13:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Skeezix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋