Its been around 6 years since my last gf,For some weird reason my hormones go out of control when I talk to an attractive girl and I begin fumbling and stuff,I know its sort of weird.I don't know what the hell am I supposed to do.BTW I am 19 now.I am also not unnattractive or have never been approcahed by girls or something like that.I just can't figure it out.
2007-01-26 05:39:54 · 21 answers · asked by neo_12212002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just hang in there, have fun... she'll come when you're not looking for her. :)
2007-01-26 05:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Winette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol if you don't know the girl of course you'll fumble. I had the same problem. Just get to know them as a friend and she may have second thoughts later on about you hope this helped. Good Luck!
2007-01-26 13:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Plumerias are from Hawaii! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to figure out what you want or else you won't find anyone. I know it can be hard finding a good woman, and if you've been burnt before, all the more so. Try befriending them, getting to know them first, then figuring out if it's likely to work. And if it is, then go for it.
If not, oh well, having female friends will help you out in the long run, frustrating as it can be at times.
also, figure out what you want out of a relationship, and what will work, and go for the in between if they differ.
Also, never date outside your breed, no matter how hard it is being single. Miscegeny will ruin you in the eyes of any worthwhile woman.
2007-01-26 13:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a girl to tell you what you're doing wrong even if you have to pay her for the advice. Then, you've got to try harder. Talk to more girls. Yeah, you'll get rejected a lot but you will find out what works and what don't. You will also gain confidence which is probably the most important thing that girls look for.
2007-01-26 13:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Larry62 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you need to ask a couple girls out first :) And if you fumble, remember, she's attractive, but she's still a regular woman, just like ur sister, mom, or cousin. With me, if a guy is relaxed and polite, I respect him, even if I say no, cause he knows how to treat a lady.
2007-01-26 13:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Might be the way you dress. Have you thought about that? Are you a poser? Both not good for attracting females. Try making friends first, like PAWB said, then see what happens from there. And yeah, never date outside of your race, blah.
2007-01-26 14:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by irishuaill 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you probably are coming off as shy to them , and most girls like me don't like to deal with a shy guy because they end up having to do everything in the relationship. Just be outgoing, don't worry about not being approached ,you should always be the one approaching. You can email me if you want to talk more.
2007-01-26 13:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like somebody's got a confidence problem.
Solution: Eat beans all the time.
2007-01-26 13:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
firstly, you must try and relax and be yourself, I think you are trying too hard, I know its easier said than done, you sound a very sincere person who is sensitive perhaps your first date should be a nice quiet walk in the park, so you are able to relax and enjoy each others company rather than a pub or a club.
2007-01-26 14:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by gabriella O 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your last girlfriend was when you were 13... hopefully that was not a serious relationship. Just stay calm and be yourself, you will find the right one in time. They say if you quit looking you will find love.
2007-01-26 13:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey it's ok just when u talk to someone u think is attractive then try to act normal and just be yourself and try to make her laugh.
2007-01-26 13:49:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋