2007-01-26 05:38:52 · 21 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All these people are absolutely right with an exception of one that said that nothing going to last between you if you have to keep him curious and interested. What she didnt get in your question is that you actually preparing by never letting him get to the point where he is not interested. So good girl! Pat on your back and star for your question because women need to be aware of these things. Thats what makes a keeper. Keep him guessing. Dont open up everything right away. For example by trying new things in bed it will keep him guessin what is next. What she is wearing for me tonight? Why she have those puffy handcuffs in her hand? lol
Be a bad girl and a good girl, switch up every day or maybe every so many hours. Make him chase you.
2007-01-26 05:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maintain your own identity and your own privacy. I'm not talking about "game playing." I'm talking about respecting yourself. He doesn't need to know every detail about your life, where you are every day, what you did. Keep him wondering. Don't make yourself too available for him. Don't go out with him EVERY time he asks. Tell him you have other plans sometimes, even if it's just to sit at home and play on the computer or shampoo your hair or whatever. At least 50% of the time, be the one to end your phone conversations so he doesn't think he "has" you. But make sure he knows that you are interested and curious too. If he's interested, he will come your way. You just have to let him know in your own way that you have a life that doesn't revolve around him.
2007-01-26 05:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself but NEVER BE PREDICTABLE! First of all! Men get bored with that easily!
I know me personally as a women I like doing something different time to time. I get bored easily…
Continue to have a life and don't make it about him all the time...keep him guessing...
Once in a while plan a romantic evening out of the blue, YOU pay for dinner once in a while (Baby I got it) that might turn him on...LOL...or doing something naughtier in the bedroom. Role play..is fun..Men love surprises just like us women…don’t get carried away and do it all the time but once in a while show him a side of you he has never seen before and also communicate more with him to really see what his interest are and work from there…be creative in your relationship…KEEP THINGS INTERESTING…don’t be a bore. That’s what I do with my fiancé I am always thinking of something fun and creative that we can do either at home or out in the city.
2007-01-26 05:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mia-Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the men I have been with seem to enjoy women who have a mysterious air about them. Something they can't quite put there finger on and keeps the wondering what's that girl all about.
This is not nessarily a sexual thing, but a "what makes her tick" mystery. Keep him guessing and suprise him with something about yourself now and then. Be creative, but honest! This sometimes takes a little practice, but once you master it, the men follow you like puppie dogs.
2007-01-26 05:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by EsteeIsFrench 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Add spice to the relationship. Continue to go on dates, where you meet up like it's the first time. Make dates to meet at the motel and have the room set with with romance in the air. Buy new nighties, rose pedals for the bed. You get where I going with this. You can be so creative. Try it! Have fun.
2007-01-26 05:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by michellej 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play a sport, watch tv, do lots of activities and road trips and traveling, and keep secrets from him and tell him you can't tell him. But when you feel you've made a good connection then tell him the interesting secret :) And stay MYSTERIOUS
2007-01-26 05:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only let him know a little about yourself at a time. Don't give it to him all at once, but be sure not to bore him either. Guys like a challenge, if you are too easy they will loose interest.
2007-01-26 05:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go slow, don't reveal too much too soon, space out
dates/phone calls (don't seem overly anxious but interested),
choose public places for fun dates before moving onto more
intimate dates, become real friends first and enjoy each others
company.
2007-01-26 05:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
by discovering does things u both do and do well and taking a genuine and avid interest in dem.
if u actually love him truly, then, u wuld actually find someting mutually beneficial.
take care and apply interest in ur relationship.
2007-01-26 05:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by krayzieclinton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him everything and dont call him all the time let him call you and then when you are soppose to cal him call him a few minutes after and it iwll keep him waiting by the phone and then when he asked you ?'s somtimes just say why dont you guess and it will drive him crazy wanting to know bc he will want to know so bad trust me works everytime!...
2007-01-26 05:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋