Is it possible after having a friends with benefit relationship with someone that your work with..turn into a relationship someday? I know that its strictly sex but i was just wondering..please be honest. Thanks! Have a great day! =)
2007-01-26 05:29:37 · 30 answers · asked by Ambitious27 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Possible? Yes. Likely? No.
If you two knew each other as friends first and he didn't want an actual relationship with you before, why would he want one now that he's getting one of the best parts of a relationship (regular sex) without any obligations?
2007-01-26 05:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible sweetie!! Is it a good idea to pursue a meaningful relationship or a purely sexual relationship with someone you work with probably not! The only reason being is that if you encounter any type of problem at home or during your off time then your problems will pour over into work. Once your boss notices that then it could mean termination for one or both of you. If both of you can seperate work from home then it could work, but when you see each other 24 hours a day a fight is bound to occur in the work place. I tried that once myself, after we broke up it was very hard to go to work everyday because we lost the professional relationship that we had. I ended up leaving the job because communication between us was a pivotal part of completing our daily tasks. The only other question I have is, Where in the US are you and why are there not more women like you. You are pretty damn sexy!!
2007-01-26 05:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No way. No how. No matter what.
Sex is a wonderful, exciting gift you should only give to very few people under very powerful circumstances. It is not a convenience item to be given away casually. Even hookers get paid for it. What are you getting out of it besides self-doubt, worry and the wet spot on the bed? Or does he even stay long enough for that last one?
What I'm baffled at is your wondering whether it could turn into a relationship someday. You are sharing your most intimate self with someone but it doesn't count as a relationship? It even sounds insane. Would you like your parents to know your doing this? Is this what you dreamed about when you were a little girl? (When I grow up I want to have emotionless sex with a guy who cares about me so little we aren't even dating and I hope it turns into a relationship one day!) And, if your birth control method fails? You can have f*** buddy babies.
Respect yourself and others will respect you. Pass yourself around like a cheap snack food and others will treat you as such. Girlfriend, lover, wife, mother or a bag of chips?
2007-01-26 05:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It might be and then I don't know...how do you know you are his only BENEFIT? ..you may get your feelings hurt. The way it starts times is more than likely how it will end unfortunately! I would discuss it with him and see where it goes hell what do you have to lose at least you would know instead of guessing! I
If not I would search elsewhere than your job for a real relationship...when you do start over you should get to know the person mentally first then enjoy the physical later..a relationship just base off of sex won't last long....don't be no one's BENEFIT..don't you think you deserve better...its not best to mix pleasure with work times...someone is bound to get burn!
2007-01-26 05:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mia-Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat myself and I feel that many things are possible, but I suspect that it will just remain sex. I would love mine friend with benefits to mean more but I think he has the trappings of a relationship without the hard work.
So he is happy.
2007-01-26 05:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I started out as friends with benefits. We've been in our relationship almost 6 years, and have been married for almost 3.
As long as you keep your expectations realistic, anything is possible. If the relationship doesn't develop, at least you're getting some in the meantime.
2007-01-26 05:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think friends with benefits is a good thing if you don't like having a commitment with someone other than sex! but i don't see how it can become anything more :( only because you should first get to know the person and date him or her find out likes and dislikes than after all that work comes the sex! but you are going backwards!! you work your way up to sex not work your way down!!
2007-01-26 05:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, it won't happen that way. Once both of guy and girl agree its for friend with benefit. It can't change because agree is agree. I had that many times and i fell in them and of course i can't do anything becase its just a sex, no love in it. Unless a girl can win a guy's mind, it will turn to a relationship then.
2007-01-26 05:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends w/benefits is the same thing as a relationship without the love or commitment. Add the two remaining things and you have your relationship.
2007-01-26 05:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because I've tried it before and he just tryed to keep our relationship strictly sex too and I wasnt having that. Just keep it at friends with benefits. Hey, I give really good advice so if you ever need me just email me at peanut200482@yahoo.com. My name is Shay
2007-01-26 05:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by Shay Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋