even my ex has moved on and found other to love, i too i'm trying to move on, we don't have contact and i haven't spoken to him in person since he dumped me on msn but we still see each other around and thats hard, he treated me bad towards the end and i don't want him back, he's running after this other girl (i was once that girl)now i pity her shes younger than him and i hope she knows what she is letting herself into just because hes in a band doesn't mean he's a nice person, anyway i have been looking myself but everyone seems taken and everyone around me seems to be truly in love, i guess i'm feeling kind of low right now is there anything i can do? any comforting words or songs to listen to? HELP i no longer want to feel like this!!!
2007-01-26 05:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do for yourself is identify what you love to do,and do it,a lot.The best way to walk past your ex and move on is to start by bieng engaged in activities that fascinate you-especially those that have nothin to do with dating and love hunting.How about getting busy with million things?How about actually filling your life with interesting activities.
Trust me,This really works.It worked for me.I am a single that was heart broken and devastated 7 months ago.I am back on my feet.I want you to boost your self-esteem by focusing on yourself.Love and take care of youself.
I too was feeling low those days.I made a list of all those activities that fascinate me.Got engaged in at least one of them every single day.
Make a list of places you would like to visit.Go on a long drive with your buddies.Cheer up.Watch your favourite movies or any T.V shows.Read articles or magazines that help you transform your life to the fullest.You can find them online.Often communicate with your dear ones,i bet they will make you smile a lot.Read beauty and lifestyle magazines.Work out and get fit.Go shopping,buy outfits,cosmetics to make you feel special.
Good Luck!
2007-01-26 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i don't think there is a cure apart from time!! it's probably best to stay out of the way of your ex!!! and maybe listen to some happy (cheesy) music e.g. wham! :]
2007-01-26 05:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by youdidnotjustsaythat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop thinking about him and you will feel better.Find another guy.Like me.
2007-01-26 05:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋