I broke off a relationship with somebody who apparently had some serious issues left to deal with from a former relationship. I have told him time and time again that it is over with us. He keeps emailing and calling me because he thinks there is still a chance. I don't want to be cruel or mean to him but a person can only take so many "I can't live without you" emails. We only dated for 3 months.
2007-01-26 05:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just cit all the phone, power, and move across country...
to be honest it sounds like your going to beat this guy with a 2 by 4 before he gets this message, it really sounds like he needs a little hurt...
Booma BOOM
2007-01-26 05:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried to be kind - you probably need to stop being kind - this person obviously doesn't get subtle.
So 1. Do not reply to any of his emails
2. If he calls do not answer the phone
3. If you have too just tell him clearly it is over and to stop emailing and calling and then stop answering.
4. If that does not work be concerned and go the police
2007-01-26 05:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a stalker on your hands. Have you tried sending him an email telling him to leave you alone. you dont want things to get out of hands. That "i can't live without you" you may need to be careful. Also, change your numbers and your email address. C if that works.
2007-01-26 05:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by TASHA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor Guy!! You need to try to atleast be there, as his friend..... Explain to him , that if he'll quit bugging you so much, you'll atleast be there as his friend until he meets someone else... he's obviously heart-broken over the break-up, and in order to get him off of your back you actually do need to give him some sort of response...... Even if you have to tell him, to just email, or call you every other week, as "FRIENDS" strictly, or you'll get a "Restraining Order" against him....... I wouldn't mention that part until you've emphasized the part about "Just being FRIENDS" first....... Good luck to you, hun......I went through the same thing with my EX.. but it was alot different, mine was abusive, and I did have to get a "Restraining Order!!" Just let him down easy, you know......
2007-01-26 05:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life we have to be mean, this sounds like it may be one of them. If you have tried all the nice ways. Tell him you will date him again after he goes through couseling for his separation issues. But make it clear he absolutely must go through counseling and you do not want to hear from him again until he does.
Plus email him a link to this question and answers!
2007-01-26 05:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already told him nicely and if he still doesn't get the hint it is time to get firmer with your answers. I know you hate to be mean but it appear to me that is what it is going to take for him to get the picture. How many times do you have to tell a person that that is no yall any more??? My goodness! It is time to get down to business and let him know to leave you alone.
2007-01-26 05:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to be mean about it. If you're nice about it, he'll push more. Put your foot down and tell him off. He probably needs more time to get over you, but you need to continue to push him away.
If it continues, I'm pretty sure you have some guy friends who can scare him off without harming him.
2007-01-26 05:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by tejada91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're going to have to be "mean". tell him flat out to leave you alone. don't answer calls or emails. sooner or later he'll get the hint
2007-01-26 05:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by SassySue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be mean. Stop answering his email and stop taking his calls. If you pick up and hear it's him, just hang up. If he keeps it up, talk to the police about harassment.
2007-01-26 05:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you are in love with someone else and cant live without them...it;ll work.
2007-01-26 05:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋