My woman lost her spark for me what can help bring it back. I lost the spark many of times but it came back everytime. What can i do?
2007-01-26 05:17:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romance her a little (not a lot though, overdoing it is as bad as not doing it at all. Just a little keeps her wanting more) Also, listen to what she says about what she needs and try to compromise together so that you are both mutually content.
2007-01-26 05:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay is the only reason women lose sparkle. Also switch up once in a while, because she may be tired of your favorite regulary used position. Just try new things and this time start with full body massage. Be like hey hunny how about a massage. Start with a back and work your way down to her booty and then legs moving your way up back to her booty but this time a lil bit on inner thighs.....keep doing it even if your hands tired. She will be craving you like crazy. Try to get into it and it will work magic. And guess what then ou can turn her around and give her massage in a front too.....yes massage her breats and stomack and v line. Dont get to best part just yet.....get to her feet and lift her leg by massagin it and get a good view on what is going to be yours in next few minutes but dont touch that yet either, just around it. LOL I know it already sounds like a plan, but main thing is that you need to have it tense and very sensual. Nothing rough, at least not at the beggining.....then you can turn her back around and put some lotion on yourself and slide your body up and down her back....of course make sure you are naked by then while she is on her stomach and cant see. so when you do slide your body up and down your hard boy is there to make an amazing sensation. She will be done and thats what you call a lil sparkle.
2007-01-26 13:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is to forget about the sparks. Sparks are what start the fire not sustain the fire. The flames sustain the fire.
Don't treat your marriage like you're supposed to be on a first date all the time. You have to learn to truly love one another. That means your spouse and their needs ALWAYS come before yours. That means when you feel like you want to love (as a noun=emotion) one another you LOVE (verb=action) one another.
I think my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world. I'm more in love today than yesterday and I'm looking forward to tomorrow being more in love then. I always keep in my head that she's my woman and I'm her man and it will be that way until the Lord calls us home.
But on the days that our marriage isn't a scene from a gushy dime store romance novel, I just remind myself that she's my women and I'm her man and it will be that way until the Lord calls us home.
2007-01-26 13:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by penhead72 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when we live together for a while we tend to let ourselves go physically and emotionally. Try hitting up the gym, set some goals for yourself. Sometimes when your spouse who's seen you as an overweight person for so long can suddenly be drawn to you. Try this out and if if works then great, but if not then try some counseling.
2007-01-26 13:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my spark after my twins were born...just no time. I havent gotten it back in 8 months, so i'm hoping to find out as well!!
2007-01-26 13:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look back at old pictures that bring back old memories, and think back to why you are with this person and why it would be a bad thing if you lost this person. i think of all of the ppl that i know that lost loved ones and it makes me appriciate and love the one i'm with more!
2007-01-26 13:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by j_la_02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how your relationship is. id say you should make her feel extra special. buy her some flowers, get her a card let her know your feelings for her... take her out somewhere just to talk. but always treat her right all the time... we love when you show that you care about us. thats just my advice or what i would want. good luck though...
2007-01-26 13:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my spark for my man a couple of times and I just recently told him about it. I said that we nned to do somethng different. more kinky, or a different surrounding...So yeah try something different.
2007-01-26 13:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, set up a romantic date with no sex as the prize, she
will be the one to want it after a nice night like that!
2007-01-26 13:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what type of things she likes,try doing them more often. Spice things up in the bedroom,try something new,always let her know how much you care about her and how much she means to you.Try sending her flowers every other day to her job or something.
2007-01-26 13:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋